in the past 2016, we were all talking about how to be a good mother in many of the platforms, many netizens gave us a strong dissatisfaction What is a platform for education, but in a series of articles, there is no mention of how to be a good father?
we are Vic to accept criticism. On the first day of the new year's work, we make a solemn statement: all men, including men who have no children, read our suggestions carefully, love your wife and children more in the new year, and make a more active effort to live a new life.
then in life, we add a lot of pressure to the man in the invisible: the four words are not easy to raise, but which man is easy to say? Which child's growth does not experience the wind and rain? Which woman is easy? Moving forward under pressure is the reality that every adult should face.
in the process of growing up, a lot of things are what children want dad to do, but many dads are perfunctory with all kinds of excuses. What are the things?
dad please read it carefully and read
1. with a child to repair or wash a car or anything. The next time you repair anything in your home (a toilet, a light bulb), be sure to take your child, explain to your child why you do it, you need his help, and you may have to do something for a long time. These things are trivial things, but they are the things children want to do with their fathers best.
2. dance with the children. It doesn't matter if you can dance, swing, circle, hold the child in the hands, turn the child around the circle, jump up and down, the more silly your kids will be, the happier your children will be and the music to dance together. This is really the best memory of the family. Do dad, do you not want to create good memories with the children?
3. insists on doing one thing. For example, insisting on reading to the children, or insisting on giving their children the most favorite meal every weekend, insisting on taking the children to a movie once a week, going to a museum, going outdoors, and sticking out an interesting rule, it's important for the children, this is Dad's recollection.
and the good memories of the child
4. care about your child and ask everything except the test score. Schools hate teachers, weird friends, their dreams and so on. This is the real concern. When children are in trouble, they try to help children solve problems instead of criticizing them.
5. occasionally leaves a message for her child to write a card. Whether you write a letter to a child on the journey or a casual note to a child on the way to a boring meeting, what you say is not important, but for the child it's their world, and this is the surprise that dad gave them. What you write to your children is the love in your child's eyes.
6. gives children a surprise, even once a year. Early to go home to pick up the children to go to school, half a day in a year not to go to work and children to play, or whatever you can do, even if only once a year, will give the children unlimited memories. When children grow up, they say, "someday, dad will take me..."
7. takes the child to work. It's not hard. Once in a while, take a child to your office, show your desk, your cup, your sticky paper, your coffee cup, your coat, your work notes, what you do every day. This is the world of dad that many children want to know most of their childhood (and of course mom can).
appears in the child's important time
8. and the child to watch the family photo together. Whether it's a photo album or a photo saved on the hard disk, look for a day's time to look back at the photos, the important family gatherings, the holidays, the baby's birth, the birthday, and some funny pictures.
9., please appear in the important time of your child's life. Children's concerts, children's football games, children's school campaign, whatever their children love, and what they like, please be sure to appear in the important time of the child. Don't say that your work is very busy. You always have such an excuse. You must appear, Dad.
10. hugs the child and must try it. Many children can hardly get too many hugs from their father, and some may not even have one at a time. This is really a pity. From today on, try to hug the child once, six seconds, 123456 breaths...
If children are old and are not used to hugging with their fathers, then you can try have five with high hands. How cool it is!
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