wooden cotton city 2017-01-10 21:30
saying: "good words three winter warm, evil words cold June cold", speak to master the skills. Someone said, "do you need this in front of your closest relatives? How to say it, how hypocritical? " It is in front of the most intimate people that they should pay attention to the way of speaking, because they spend the longest time with their family members.
is also the case as parents. Communicate with the child to master the way to speak well, which words can be said, which words can't be said, and don't neglect the feelings of the children because they don't care. The following words are the most destructive. The more you talk, the less successful your child will be.
1, you are a man. Is it a small thing to cry about?
many parents like this to tell boys that they feel that boys should be upright, not lose easily, and should not be easily abandoned. But children are still young. In this way, children will not be able to express their feelings and be depressed for a long time.
two, is this what girls (boys) should do?
this is the most powerful phrase to kill a child's interest. A girl can like to play with a gun. A boy does not have to kick a ball, play a ball, what the child likes to do. In a reasonable range, parents should give support, not a blow.
three, you will understand my feelings in the future!
this sentence many parents have said, please, this is really a great harm to children. When a child hears this sentence, he feels that he is a big burden and the pain of his parents. Does he always say that children can still be happy?
four, your dad is a wretch!
children themselves will judge what a father and mother is a person, do not always give the child inculcate the shortcomings of the other, and always hang on the mouth, to set up a good image of the child is not good?