5 words, do all the children's rubbing
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a song of "mother's song" that had been broadcast abroad.
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the whole world mother can't help smiling. It turns out that all the mothers in the whole world are so hoarse in childcare: urging up, urging meals, pushing out the door, urging learning...
can let our heart is, we are so exhausted, but the child is still "the emperor is not anxious eunuch urgent".
Dan Mama also often receives complaints about children's dragging in the background. Dally seems to be the mark of every child. Is this really just a child's problem?
Yin Jianli has a sentence that I think is right: "don't be too anxious to change your children, it's better to stop and think about why the children are like this."
dawdle is not only a child's problem, but also a problem for our parents sometimes.
today, Dan mother used five words to unravel the child's dally secret:
5, make a child all dally
the first sentence: the less focused children dally with
when they were wearing shoes, they suddenly played the shoelaces, writing homework and playing a side of the toys... When it is clear that it is necessary to do this, one eye goes off and another thing goes. Is the child innate?
is not the case. Because of the problem of brain development, the younger children are less focused.
countermeasures
acceptance of children's attention is still developing, not deliberately against us.
does not require a child with an adult standard, but should not destroy a child's concentration.
Countdown: I often use it to my nephew to help children feel the urgency of time.
should pay attention to these points in use -
(1) start from 10 or 3, don't say 1 minutes to children, how long is it for a minute;
(2) reciprocal speed can't be too fast, the child will think you are cheating, also play with the countdown;
(3) reciprocal. Do not be serious but be serious, don't let the child think you are playing;
(4) children have to be sure to be praised in time: Wow, baby, you are wearing shoes today two seconds faster than the last time.
second sentence: you and he said five minutes, he actually do not understand what is five minutes
children because of brain development, the understanding of the abstract concept of time so fast and slow, the pleasure of playing the feeling of time flies, doing what you do not like the day.
besides, in terms of time management, children do not have the ability to arrange what to do first according to the importance of things.
game
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more intuitively, try to let children do time planning, to list with their children what to do at the same time, and to give children the right to arrange them.
perhaps the child may still be unable to act according to his own arrangements, but don't worry, we should train the thinking of the children's planning time, not a time, and the next adjustment.