Ji'nan children's diligence index survey: only 20% of boys do housework.
source: urban women's
October 11th is the United Nations girl international day. A new report by the United Nations Children's agency says girls spend 40% more time than boys doing housework, and time increases with their age. On the 10 day, the women's newspaper reporters surveyed some of the local parents in Ji'nan. Nearly 2/3 of the girls had to wash their dishes and clean their homes at home, while less than 20% of the boys were involved in housework. Because of the school's demand for housework and the education of their parents, many children are housewives, and some of them are lazy because of their parents' indulgence.
"children do not do any housework at all. Since the school opened the Sinology class, they knew that they had tidied up their rooms." Ms. Jiang said that Yang's enthusiasm for doing housework comes from national school lessons, which teach children how to filial to their parents, such as pounding their feet to their parents, helping to wash the dishes and do the housework. Yang Yang is more considerate of his parents after his studies. Every day we go home, the children will take the initiative to pour water, greetings, usually often help me do housework, these changes in children make us feel very pleased. She said that housework should be cultivated from an early age, allowing children to experience their aftermath before they can understand their parents' hardships.
the reporter learned that even if many parents have realized the importance of making a child do the housework, it is not a easy thing to let a child do the housework, and often feel it is easier to do it than to ask for a child to do it. Many parents feel that it is more difficult for boys to do housework than girls, and girls do more housework. In fact, boys are not born to do housework and parents need timely guidance.
when ball ball was three years old, Miss Zhao divorced her husband. She can only teach her son to learn independence by raising her children alone. "When my son was in kindergarten, he even had problems eating himself, but now he is a little star in the class." Ms. Zhao said that every day after work, she will make time to make time with her son to do little things in life, such as dining, doing housework and telling stories, so that the ball will feel cherishing, valued and taken care of. She said that boys proved not only to do housework but also to do a good job. It is a good thing to let children "eat bitterness", learn to care for themselves and care for others.
housework for children to leave the "field of responsibility"
a grade 1 class teacher of primary school in Tianqiao District, Ms. Guo said: when parents are busy with the children to learn, do not forget to let the children do housework, cultivate their hands-on ability and sense of responsibility. The child's participation in housework is not only to reduce the burden of their parents, but also to let the children experience the feeling of their own family better and cultivate the independence and responsibility of their children. Parents should provide the children with the job of housework, the floor of the table, the tidying up a room for children to leave a "private" washing tableware, watering the cat to feed the cat a "duty field" for the child. Through the housework contract, stimulate children's interest in doing housework and doing housework.