you say again: "the baby is raised by a seed, and this seed stays in the mother's belly."
the child is four or five years old, and you tell him again: "when the baby is big enough in his mother's stomach, it will get out of a special channel. This passage is called the vagina. Make sure that the child understands that this passage is neither anus nor urethra.
answer the question about the truth of life as far as possible,
to satisfy his curiosity.
children have the ability to observe life and enrich their imagination. They generally believe they can hear what they see.
for the sex difference between men and women, the child in the kindergarten is from the boy standing urine, the girl squatting in urine to judge, the lower grade pupils see is: boys on the men's toilet, girls on the women's toilet.
some children observe different sexes by raising small animals.
there was a little boy who used to fight very much. He cried and cried out. One summer vacation in the countryside, I saw my cousin and his little friend fighting cricket. The crickets of their cousins, though small, are very fierce. So he caught two, and he wanted to fight.
never thought that his two crickets would not fight at all.
his cousin smiled and told him, "you two crickets are all mothers. Of course they are not fighting!"
so he threw out a big one and changed a small one, but they still did not fight.
when he changed the two to the public, two crickets were fighting vigorously.
he felt very deep, after returning home, wrote a diary, summed up a sentence: "the public crickets do not fight crickets, I old bully female students, I am not as crickets."
the teacher read his diary in the whole class, and everyone burst into laughter. The teacher asked the students, "do you think there is still the same phenomenon in the animal world?"
we have cited the most ferocious animals, such as elephants, lions and tigers, to protect the opposite sex. The boys were inspired to transform the "expendable team", which had been a special bullying girl, into an organization that specializes in protecting girls and weak students. In the class, the "love in the middle of us" was launched in the class. The students understand a truth: protecting the weak and protecting women is the performance of the man's strength.
sex and sex education should not be interpreted only from the perspective of anatomy and physiology, but to combine sex, sex with ideal and spirit.
especially for adolescent boys and girls, they have to offer them physiological and psychological courses, and introduce some related educational health books to them to eliminate the mystique of sex.
, like the Encyclopedia of Chinese children published by China Encyclopedia press, there are several pages of colorful pages. Where does it come from? What's the difference between boys and girls? They are lively and children are very good at watching, so that they can learn to resist sexual temptation.
there is a "troubled autumn" to write a "chicken hair letter" to "the young sister of China". "One day, a boy pulled my hand and kissed me, would I be pregnant?" My friend Xu Guojing replied in the column "
" intimate girl ". I think she speaks beautifully and clearly, adapting to the reading of primary and middle school students. The reply is written in this way:
Dear Qiu Qiu:
you are so cute and imaginative. If the boy kisses you, it will not be a child. Really, don't worry!
every child is the crystallization of parental love. It is a miracle of life created by two cells. These two cells, one called sperm, live in the father's body; one is called egg and lives in the mother's body.
when mom and dad are deep in love, especially when they want to have a baby, Dad's sperm and mother's egg start dating, and then hand in hand to the mother's womb to camp, for 280 days. In the womb, the sperm and egg combine into a single cell that can not be seen by the naked eye, and then grow fast and fission until it becomes a lovely baby. The baby clasping its mother's door, crying out of the mother and finally becoming an independent person.
Where is the uterus? Why is it that 280 days after living there, a cell can become a baby? Chinese culture is extensive and profound. How wonderful is the word "uterus"? As the name suggests, the uterus is the child's palace. This is a beautiful palace, more beautiful than any Palace on the earth: it has a magical nutrient conveyor belt - the umbilical cord, tightly linked to the mother and the children, like a 24 hour day and night restaurant; a velvet like sleeping bed - a tread, floating around with amniotic fluid like a sea, like a sea. The waves on it. Not only that, the baby lives in the womb, but also listens to the rhythm of the mother's heart day and night, as well as the rhyme of the blood vessels of the palace wall harp...
everyone is born in the palace of music, the palace of music.
use this method to transfer the knowledge to the child is a kind of beauty, that is, it will not let the child produce fear, no evil, some is the worship of life, the yearning for life.