in our lives, how many of our parents say "you are picked up". There are quite a few people who believe in this sentence.
"Mom, where do I come from?"
3 to 5 years old children love to ask this question. What should parents answer?
a lot of parents, in order to save trouble, make up a story to tell the children:
"you are picked up by the road",
"you are jumping out of the seams",
"you are someone else sent to our door"
...
the child is a little bigger and wants to ask the details:
"which road do you pick up from?"
"which rock did I jump out of?" Is that the big stone that Sun Wukong has born? "
"who brought me to..."
faced with such problems, parents often get tongue tied, unable to justify themselves, and regret not having made such a strange story.
is even more difficult. Every child will bring up many different questions. Often the forms of these problems are often beyond your expectations.
"Mom, where can I come from?" That's a good answer.
in fact, such a reply is also premature for my mother. When the expectant mother is giving birth to the fetus, the purpose is to form a bond between mother and child at an early date.
think about it. When a child knows that he is not born by his parents but from the side of the road, where does the parent child relationship of blood thicker than water come from? The mother and son will be questioned. Hearing such an answer, the child's subconscious will feel a sense of loss, and the child's sense of security will also weaken.
these are not good for children to grow up happily.
sex education for children must be suitable for children's age characteristics, concise and realistic, and should be gradual.
answer: "where am I coming from?" Children of different ages should have different answers.
a 3 year old boy asked his mother the question. Mother told a long story. The central idea was to tell the child, "Dad has a lot of seeds in his stomach. It's planted in the mother's stomach, and the seed becomes a baby when it grows up."
second days, the son solemnly said to his mother: "Mom, you're not right. Dad has no seeds in his stomach, it's all rice!" I think he eats it! "
this mother is too hasty. Whenever he tells a child so many things, he will feel confused. In fact, to answer questions raised by a 3 year old child is as simple and clear as a child's question. It is not necessary to tell the three or four year old children exactly what they are doing physically. It is easy for him to be satisfied with a simple answer.
you can say, "baby grows in a special place in the mother's body. This place is called the uterus." It's enough for you to tell him for the time being.
if the child is older, if he asks, "how did the baby get into her mother's body? How did he come out again? "
you say again: "the baby is raised by a seed, and this seed stays in the mother's belly."