Re: a Chinese mother was shocked 6 times by an American exchange student living at home.
the fourth time I was shocked to hear two children chatting, my daughter asked what the most feared thing a girl in the United States was. The American girl said it was a year of summer vacation. Parents of several families sent a few more than 10 year old children to the virgin forest, without water and food, without beds and tents, to meet their children a week later. That week was the most fearful and exciting thing for the child.
American girls say they eat raw mice without hunger. The starting point of parents is to exercise their children's viability.
fifth shocked
fifth times was surprised to be the last supper. American girls are going to leave Nanjing. In order to make her taste the most delicious Chinese food, we take her to the most prosperous place in Nanjing, lion bridge, and point the "chicken winged wings" which has won the national gold medal. When the American girl knew that the dish was made of shark fin, she firmly refused: "this dish is unacceptable to me. Animals need protection." There was no room for maneuver, and I felt a lot of admiration for my sweat.
sixth times the shock of
dinner, several children went to the nearby video game city to play. Besides the daughter and the American girl, we invited the two good friends of our daughter. After the play, the child kept telling me: "Mom, Americans too much! Once I entered the video game city, two of my good friends went to play. The American girl took me to see what the game was most profitable, and then locked the target after a round trip. She won a lot of game money, and then we went to find the game that she was interested in.
I was not just amazed this time. I was shocked: it was really terrible to know how to maximize the benefits and think about it at a small age.
my daughter said, "let's think of what I have said so far:" Mom, if we go on like this, we can only work for them later. "
think
what kind of children are we developing? Overindulgence, frequent intervention and over protection result in our children being heartless and incompetent. Photocopier education consumes children's energy and limits children's pursuits. As is known to all, nature is the nature of the child. Freedom is the nature of the child. It stifle nature and nature. It is the vitality and motive of stifling growth. Can such education produce creative talents? Different education decisions are not the same, the future master belongs to what kind of people, believe everyone is very clear, and we are in the delivery of migrant workers, and at best, is a senior worker.