"61" consoled the children left behind to make happiness only
children's emotional world is colorful, and they are also particularly sensitive to the difference of identity. Care for the left behind children, do not deliberately create a "see with the parents" of tears, do not let them express their parents' thoughts and gratitude to their parents in public, and do not need to emphasize where their gifts come from. The most important theme of children's Day is happiness, and any way to undermine the happiness of this festival needs to be cautious.
"61" children's Day is one of the most popular festivals for children. But such a group of children, because they are not around their parents, can not appreciate the happiness of having a holiday with their parents. In order to make up for this regret, groups such as League committees, women's federations, trade unions and other organizations, as well as some enterprises have started caring activities, on the eve of "61" or the same day, to condolence children left behind.
Shanghai, for example, Shanghai, has received 4 left behind children from Guizhou to meet their parents in Shanghai. In Xi'an, hundreds of left behind children visit the historic sites with the company of "temporary parents"; Liaoning women's Federation selected hundreds of "self-reliance" young children from rural left behind children to Shenyang and "love mother". To celebrate "61"; in Luzhou, an enterprise donated 100 "love schoolbags" to the poor left behind children.
from the positive side, it is a positive energy for organizations and enterprises to think of left behind children and give them gifts and care during "61". Through search and browse news, we can find that this year's care for left behind children has been widespread throughout the country. This shows that the left behind children's problem, especially the emotional needs of the left behind children during the festival, has become the focus of attention of the whole society.
but through these news, it is also found that a few of the children who are able to experience the holiday atmosphere through the activities of the special organization are still a few, and many children are able to enter the ranks of loved ones luckily after the selection of layers. Although the original intention of the activities is good, it is a worry that this way of activity will not touch the sensitive heart of the left behind children, making them feel that their remaining identity is stressed again? What is the heart of the left behind children who are not involved in the activities?
care for the left behind children, the best The best way to use them, and the best way to do it, is to try to see them as ordinary children. Do not deliberately create a "meeting with parents" in tears. Do not let them express their parents' thoughts and gratitude to their parents in public, and do not need to emphasize where their gifts come from. ... The most important theme of children's Day is happiness, and any way to undermine the happiness of this festival needs to be cautious.
send money, send things, send care... In the past years, a model has been formed for the relief and sympathy of the people, and the leaders or entrepreneurs have not been able to express their feelings on the day of the festival, but the simplification and formalization of the models have weakened the emotional strength of the consolation activities. Applying this model to children's Day is a matter worth considering. Children's emotional world is colourful, and they are also sensitive to identity differences. On the day of "61", if the related organization or enterprise is interested, it can emphasize the joy of the festival, let the children play happily together without the need to emphasize the difference of identity.
, of course, the best children's Day is to spend children with their parents, but the actual situation is that the more than 200 million floating population floating in the other country, to make a living for the family, resulting in the birth of 61 million rural left behind children and a large number of urban left behind children. "The white paper of Chinese left behind children (2015)" shows that about 17 million 940 thousand rural left behind children in the country can only see their parents 1 to 2 times a year, and 9 million 210 thousand children have not seen their parents in one year. A thorough solution to the problem of left behind children lies in breaking the household registration system and allowing the floating population to enjoy the rights of the urban welfare, especially the equal access to education for the floating children.
no parents are unwilling to be with their children, nor do they want to be with their parents. When most children can follow their parents, the problem of children staying behind can be easily solved. Although "61" children's day in all parts of the country to condolence children is a love behavior, but this scene is best to be able to go as soon as possible, because compared with the company of parents, the consolation is pale.