The mother of autistic children has described herself for 10 years: I only want to live a day longer than my child.
Shun Net -
autism, and autism, the Ji'nan times times, who do not understand it is just a personality defect. Children with autism, known as stars, are children. They do not interact with people, language barriers, emotional indifference, live in their own world. What is the hardship of the family with autistic children? What is the joy that people can't understand? On the April 2nd World Autism day, reporters walked into the home of Bin Bin (the pseudonym) of the autistic child, listening to his mother, Li Ping, about the bitterness of the 10 years.
for a week, the child didn't even know the mother
at the first time, I became autistic with Bin Bin's autism, and the unit felt
Bin Bin was two years old, and mother Li Ping sent him to the kindergarten. Once I went to the kindergarten to pick up my child, I saw all the other children playing and jumping, but Bin Bin was put in a cage like iron bed, crying and screaming. I rushed over to hold him. Li Ping recalled the scene of 7 years ago and still could not conceal his pain.
Li Ping, angrily asked the teacher why he treated the child like this, the teacher gave a hopelessly the abnormality of Bin Bin's performance in the kindergarten: the child did not speak, did not play with the other children, and didn't seem to hear the teacher's words. Sometimes when he goes to class, he suddenly jumps from his seat and runs around in the classroom.
teacher's words woke up Li Ping, after the teacher's reminder, Li Shuping decided to take the child to the hospital for examination.
autism! When these three words came out of the doctor's mouth, Li Ping was not the same thing, but after hearing the doctor's explanation, Li Ping's life changed with it. At first, I became self closed with Bin Bin's autism, and felt inferior to others. What makes Li Ping uncomfortable is that when she sends Bin Bin to the Autism Training Center, Zhou Tuo, after a week to pick up the child, the child does not know her mother at all.
little hands are not ruly. They are taken as thieves to the police station
because Bin Bin, my face is thicker than before.
because Bin Bin, I am much thicker than I used to be. Now walking on the road, I can turn a blind eye to other people's different vision. Li Ping laughs at the fact that being able to be calm today is also a painful price.
once, Li Ping took Bin Bin to the bus. There were so many people on the bus that Li Ping grasped his little hand tightly. Less than 3 minutes after getting on the train, a middle-aged woman in front of Bin Bin suddenly turned around and stared at Bin Bin as he shouted for a thief. Although Bin Bin was very tall at that time, he was still ignorant of worldly affairs. He put his hand in the bag of middle-aged woman and was caught by her.
but no matter how Li Ping explained that her child had autism, it was useless. The middle-aged woman insisted on sending the mother and son to the police station. Seeing the chaos at that time, Bin Bin began to self mutilate and bite his hand, making his mouth full of blood. The people on the train saw the child's fault and believed Li Ping's words.
many times Li Ping and Bin Bin even had to get off early. Bin Bin sometimes shouts on the bus, and the driver says it will affect his emotions, affect the safety of driving,.Amp; lsquo suggests.Amp; rsquo we'd better get off.
Li Ping said, "this embarrassing thing is not a two piece. It's been a bit sad for a while at the beginning, but she sometimes has to put down her self-esteem in order to let her son have more opportunities to communicate with the outside world."
a hand bites a piece of meat, get a blood
3 years to learn to speak, 1 years to learn to tie your own shoelaces.Amp; hellip.amp; hellip
every progress makes me happy
it is a sleepless night for every night to find Bin Bin's illness. Bin Bin always wakes up and wakes in the middle of the night. All night long, Li Ping has to play with her children. Sometimes Bin Bin even bites his hand when he cries, and once he bites off a piece of meat from his hand, making the sheets, quilts and face all blood. Li Ping always felt very hopeless at this kind of situation. Whenever Bin Bin slept peacefully, she would always hold the child's hand and cry for a long time. When my children are good and when to go to school like other children,.Amp; hellip.amp; hellip, which looks simple, is a luxury for Li Ping.
the family has the bitterness of autistic children, and no one else can understand it, but Li Ping has learned to work hard. She has set up a record book for Bin Bin from the age of 3 to record the children's growth, and even a little bit of progress makes Li Ping happy. 3 years of learning to speak, 1 years to learn their own shoe laces.Amp; hellip.amp; hellip Li Ping said, from the first page to the last page from the first page to see, Bin Bin's progress in every page is in fact a lot of sweat and tears.
the child finally learned to call mother
What do I do after a hundred years?
how I wish Bin Bin could also call me.Amp; lsquo mother.Amp; rsquo. 5 years ago, Bin Bin sent a a tone to autistic children's training class in Beijing, which gave Li Ping a glimmer of hope. After 1 years, Bin Bin finally learned to call her mother, though he did not understand the meaning of these two words when he issued these two words.
said so much, in fact, what Li Ping wanted to say was, what if she and Bin Bin's father died, what would Bin Bin do? In fact, we are now very hard on.Amp; mdash.amp; mdash wants to have a second child, so we're not here, Bin Bin can have a blood relative to take care of Bin Bin with all my heart but a second child, and no Taking all the energy to take care of Bin Bin is unfair to Bin Bin and the born child. Li Ping said, my biggest hope now is to live a day longer than him.
the results of the second national sampling survey on disabled persons showed that our country's 0-6 year old mental disability (multiple) children accounted for 1.10.amp of the total number of children of 0-6 years of age; permil, about 111 thousand, most of which were caused by autism.
during 12th Five-Year, our country invested 432 million yuan to continuously implement the rehabilitation program for children with poverty autism, providing rehabilitation training for 36 thousand children with autism, and actively promoting various policies to help the rehabilitation of disabled children, including autistic children.
the responsible person in charge of the Chinese disabled federation said that during 13th Five-Year, the Chinese disabled federation will make efforts to promote the establishment of a rehabilitation and rescue system for disabled children, and continue to organize and implement rehabilitation programs for disabled children and strive to improve the rehabilitation of autistic children and other disabled children.