"North tiger mother" to the child's schedule can not be copied.
in many family "success" dictionaries, no "second" is allowed, no slack, and even no children are allowed. There are other hobbies and plans... "North tiger mother" to the child's schedule, reproducible is bound to be limited.
a 9 day old "little P child" after a post-80 "Beijing Tiger mother" gave the child a timetable did not frighten the "baby" on the Internet. It was reported that the 30 year old "tiger mother" in Chongqing gave her the "little P child" time to work for 18 hours a day, 6 hours of sleep, 5 in the morning and 11 to sleep late at night.
in the face of the incomprehension and criticism of the netizens, the "Beida tiger mother" explained that she grew up as a child, and her father's father was so educating her that year.
did not leave a psychological shadow in her "tiger dad" harsh education. This should be the most confident point of the education of the North tiger mother. Of course, the smooth crossing of Peking University threshold is the most direct success she can feel in tiger education. So she firmly believes, "it is time to set up a good goal for children, whether it is Beijing University, Tsinghua, Yale and so on, only the goal of the struggle, only the motivation of learning."
in fact, the way of educating children is good or not. "Peking University tiger mother" description, 6 hours of sleep just good, did not find the "little P child" class sleep, and every time a good test results, will give him a holiday, a combination of work and leisure.
there is no success in the world. "The tiger mother of Peking University" itself is this. Perhaps, the success of "Peking tiger mother" provides some kind of educational experience and idea to the onlooker, but it may not be able to replicate the result of stepping into Peking University as she is. The same is true for the "little P boy" who faces the "Beijing Tiger mother" now.
it is necessary to see whether the difference between the children and the children, whether it is the atmosphere of physical education, the atmosphere of the family learning and education, the character of the children, the ability to accept, and the children. Even if all the parents copied the "Peking tiger mother", all of them were able to educate their children, and they could not guarantee their children to be able to go to famous schools such as Peking University, Tsinghua, Yale and so on.
over the past few years, there are so many tiger mothers and tiger mothers in China. On the one hand, there may be factors of intergenerational influence of educational methods; on the other hand, our understanding of "success" is still too one-sided and single. In many families, success is a famous school. It is to go to black with the applause of the flowers all the way. It is not to let children "play and play" from childhood, but they must study hard and get good results. In many families' "success" dictionaries, there are no "second places", no slack is allowed, and even children are not allowed to have other hobbies and plans.
from the perspective of education, it is a useful way to pursue and shape "success". But the premature loss of children's nature is not necessarily a good thing for them today and in the future. "Success" is good, but many people 's "success", in different values people, can sometimes be seen as "failure", the key is to see how everyone understands success.