Parents' words and deeds are the children's most direct courses
it is not difficult to be a parent, but it is not easy to be a good parent. From being a parent to a parent, it is necessary to take the responsibility to educate the children well, to set a good example to the children, and to make their own words and deeds the best teaching courses for their children.
I had a good fortune to see a story:
there was a father who was born and happy at 36. He was like all the fathers in the world. He wanted his son to grow up not as a thief as he was, but to "be a dragon". In order to cultivate his son, he was more diligent in stealing and more abundant dirt. He ate the stolen food to his son, and used his money to earn the best school for his son. He basically satisfied all the needs of his son. The son grew up day by day, smart and handsome, and his academic career was advancing. As a father, he had no pleasure in his heart.
, in order to prepare for his son's admission, his father explored the way of a wealthy family. Late in the night, the moon was black and windy, and the father wanted to grasp the best time to steal, disguise himself, and was waiting to go out. Suddenly, a dark figure carrying a big bag of heavy hands suddenly entered the room, shutting down the door and turning on the light. Apart from the mask and the burden, the movements were as swift as clouds and flowing water. Father was stunned by the scene in front of him! This man is no other man. He is the son of his son who has just stolen home. At this moment, the son came proudly and patted his father on the shoulder. He whispers, "Dad, stop worrying! Enjoy it from now on... " The words of his son are as soft as silk, but they are heard like thunder in their father's ears. In the light of the light, his father trembled all over, looking at his son as he was disguised as his own figure, looking at his own action of breaking down and clearing the dirty things. He cried and cried, "old - day - I - ah!" Then fall dead...
I can not comment on the beauty and writing skills of the story, but I can never forget the story's thought-provoking content. The thief father used his stolen food to make his son grow smart and handsome. His stolen property sent his son to "the best school" and let his son win the title. Ordinarily, his expectations will be fulfilled, but why can't he grow his son into a "dragon" that he is looking forward to? But still a "thief"?
it was the summer vacation of 1990 when I read this story, when I was 26 years old, although I became a father, the moral of this story is clear. Parents' words and deeds are the most direct courses for children. They are the most easily accepted by children and the most influential courses for children. In the story, the action of thieves and father's shoplifting is a kind of bad teaching course that has direct education to the son. It penetrates the son's bone marrow directly, once again and again. It is his words and deeds that the direct education most deeply affects his son's growth, because this son is educated by his words and deeds. An unfolding "thief", a "thief" that resembles his own, inevitably staged the tragic result of the story - the father who loved his son died in despair and self reproach.
since then, I have constantly urged myself to set a good example for children with their own good words and deeds. I want to be strict with the high standards of a father: diligently study, work hard, behave pragmatically, be honest and honest, keep a good household and hold the job. Teach the son with the good words and deeds that father should have.
has been a father for 20 years. Now, the 20 year old son has also entered the famous American school through his own diligence, receiving high quality education and learning. At the same time, in his spare time, he has a part-time job to exercise his own abilities. It is also recognized and praised by teachers, classmates and elders. Of course, this is not only the result of the education of my wife and my wife, but I believe it is certain that my words and deeds must have a direct or indirect effect on my son, more or less, or even deep.
My son's memory of my son was almost heard by his relatives and friends: "good dad", and sometimes his son also praised and derogated that I was a "bookworm", "workaholic, only a new channel." And whenever my wife says to me, "your son is more and more like you!" At the time, my heart is steadfast. These are the best explanations for my words and deeds.
"no stop" education for children is a lifelong responsibility of parents, and I will continue to use their own better words and deeds, for the son to write the best lessons to benefit the life of the best teaching, to be a good father of the son's approval.
today, I share and discuss this story with my own child. I hope to give a little suggestion on the road to educating children, even if it is a small reminder that parents' words and deeds are the most direct teaching courses of the children, and the greatest impact on the children, The deepest teaching course!