Let the child dare to say no to strangers
Shandong commercial newspaper
professor of people's Public Security University, how "anti wolf" back good children's nursery rhyme, do a good job of safe child exercise is not enough "back" The heart is not allowed to touch the underpants. It is very easy to sit on the side of others. Last weekend, Wang Dawei, a professor at the Chinese People's Public Security University at the Shandong science and Technology Museum, gave a lecture on "children's safe growth", which was a very important "safety lesson" for parents and children of the city in the way of nursery rhymes, child exercises and examples. Wen / TU reporter Liu Jianyu
each nursery rhyme is a lesson of
in recent years, children's safety education has become more and more widely concerned by family, school and society. From kindergarten to freshman year, the first lesson after school is safety education.
"when the British police patrol with a lot of toys, see the child give him a toy bear, behind a little bear with a white satin ribbon, which is said to say," not to speak to strangers. " Wang Dawei for example, for example, someone asked, "what is your name, this little friend?" The child can answer "don't know," and "I'm sorry, I can't tell you", even "I'm sorry, my father hasn't been named, he's busy."
How can children set up safety awareness from childhood, be alert to danger and keep away from infringement? Wang Dawei wrote the nursery rhymes, such as "not talking to strangers" and other research results. "The vest is not allowed to be touched. It is very easy to sit on the side of the others." Wang Dawei believes that female college students can avoid danger if they can remember "not to go black". In addition, parents should educate their children from their parents' parents, so long as they are covered by trousers and vests, they can not be touched by their parents. In the past, the reason why some teenagers were violated was related to the lack of attention.
"little flower dog, little cat." Not to amuse, far and far. Scratches and bites are not, and mother rewards big bananas. "Do not pick up little jewels, but crowded people. The staircase bridge is easy to trample, and the rockery is careful to guard against falling stones. " Wang Dawei says these nursery rhymes are lessons learned from real cases, such as children who are scratched by a wild dog, suffering from the death of a rabies disease and so on.
crossing the road test and identifying whether there is a bad person behind
Wang Dawei believes that more and more schools are not only teaching in security knowledge, but more importantly, teaching children safety skills and specific methods of operation. On the basis of recent cases of hijacking, campus violence, and site involvement, Wang Dawei invented a set of student child safety exercises with children's rhyme pithy formula and shared with parents and children at the lecture scene yesterday.
"a person goes to school and asks me what I don't know. Go down and go ahead and catch up with your friend. " Wang Dawei taught the children's exercises hands-on. The first sentence was that the children went to school on their own, with two hands on their chest straps. When I read "ask me what I don't know", I waved my hand. The third sentence was to move my head in a swinging arm. The last sentence stretched out the left forearm to catch up with the children in front.
4 simple actions, coupled with 4 nursery rhymes, combine children's rhymes with children's exercises to enhance children's memory. The reporter saw in the scene, at the same time can do the action, a lot of children like this lively way of teaching, parents take out the mobile phone picture video, no details of any missing.
in addition, he is still teaching students how to "identify bad people behind them". "If you find someone following you behind, how do you know if he is intent on misconduct?" Wang Dawei said that the easiest way to identify is to cross the road. "Go to the opposite side of the road. If you go across the road, the man behind you to the opposite side of the road. You will come back again. If he comes back with you again, then you will escape, and say he is a bad man."
let children dare to tell strangers that no
"what happens when a child knocks at home when he is alone?" Wang Dawei, for example, tells a lot of parents that the unfamiliar people do not open the door, but in fact, about 60% of the cases against children are "Acquaintances", especially "unfamiliar" people. For this reason, Wang Dawei suggested that parents should educate their children unless their parents and their immediate family members would not open the door.
in case of a fire, children need to remember that the 7 words "bend down and cover down and run down" can greatly reduce the risk of injury. Wang Dawei said that in the fire, there were "10 people who burned 7 of them to be choked", and the 7 words "bend down to the mouth and run down" could be said to be summed up in life.
at present, many primary and secondary schools in Ji'nan have carried out many safety education, but few children can really live up to their needs. In a primary school in Ji'nan, after the "do not speak to strangers" education, a simulation test was made to let the members of the family Committee pretend to be a small table teacher, and called "a teacher is ill, let me take you away", and the children followed.
for the above events, Wang Dawei points out that "not talking to strangers" is not just "no talk," the key to "saying no" to strangers. The phrase "say no to strangers" was introduced from England in 90s, and translated into Chinese is "don't talk to strangers." But in fact, this translation itself has problems, and its original intention is to say "no" to strangers. To teach our children, one is to be loving, the two is that the children are limited in ability, can refuse the demands of strangers, and say 'no' to their demands, not just 'no talk'.