Comment on abandoned babies in Ji'nan: their hardship is not easy to "stand on the sidelines".
Shandong commercial newspaper Zhu Qixi
a few days ago, the media in Ji'nan were a lot of ink on the abandoned baby island. Between words, or pity, or lamentation, or anger spilling out of paper, I wish to turn into countless people and persuade them to stop.
this is all the big truth. The truth is true, but real life takes seconds. Before you get angry, ask yourself, how much do they know about their lives? How do they spend each day and how much they know? Anger is to anger, you are actually a "bystanders", and suffering is their real life.
tell a story. In my old village, when I was very young, I found a man named Zhang Wu different. He didn't even have names, because he was fifth, and that became his name. He had a problem with his brain. He was carrying a shovel in his cane basket all day long. When the village had a wedding and a wedding job, he became a handyman, but he worked hard. Once, on such an occasion, I saw Zhang five again. He was surrounded by several children and smoked in the show. A few children, while encouraging Zhang Wu Meng to smoke, was laughed at by Zhang five's embarrassing appearance. You see, even a child, dare to make fun of him. This is not an occasional scene. Children's teasing and adults' taunting, a disabled person, especially mentally handicapped, is in a very difficult position in the countryside.
poor families are not so good at being rich. Faye Wong and Li Yapeng must be rich among the rich. When their child Li Yanyi was born to be a rabbit's lip, how much should they suffer? Make a report. Li Yapeng recalls, "we didn't speak at home from the hospital, but I thought it was necessary to discuss it, and I asked my wife, 'what do you think?' The wife replied, "what else do I mean, what do you mean?" With the meaning of questioning, I immediately said, "I see." Li Yapeng can calmly recall the dialogue between the two people. After a long time, it has been able to face the reality. But it was hard for outsiders to know before. He later urged the establishment of the sweet foundation, which must be touched by the rabbit's lips.
some things are related to money, but it's not all about money and money. So, some people think that the poor throw their children on the abandoned island and throw them away, and those who can afford Audi should not throw them away. On the one hand, for the family, there is no hope of cure, and the whole family can only staggered; on the one hand, the surrounding society projected so much energy to them. The latter is much more difficult to bear.
over the years, from the government level, it has been promoting respect for the disabled; but it has to be acknowledged that there is still a long way to go in the social atmosphere. The social culture of developed countries, the greater tolerance of the disabled, they will comfort a disabled person, this is a joke that God and you, but this is a big joke. In China, it often involves moral issues. It is unfortunate that anyone who has a disabled child on a stall is often criticized by others for his grandparents' failure to accumulate virtue. There is a dispute between people, and some people will curse the next generation. How big is this discrimination?
on many issues, crushing a person is often not a matter of money, but his mental pressure. Li Xiumei, a comfort woman in Shanxi, recalls her life. She said, "the most difficult thing is to be looked down upon by others. Some people say we have entered the Japanese turret. I was the little girl I was caught in. My whole life's innocence is gone. " Families with children with disabilities can feel better at this point. There are many reports on Zhang Haidi's deeds written in
, and the best written and selected middle school textbook is Guo Meini, a Chinese Youth Daily reporter. Why can she write so sentimental and move the whole nation? Zhang Haidi's mother said, "Mr. Guo wrote well because she had a disabled son. Like me, Mr. Guo used a mother's heart to understand the disabled." Yes, Guo Meini has a son with cerebral palsy. She can feel Zhang Haidi's difficulty. She is not a spectator.
facing their sufferings, anger is a force, and change is more powerful than anger. For example, you can start from the blind road that you used to see on your doorstep or on your way to work, and use your efforts to turn it into a real blind road.