Ten words that hurt the heart of the child
remind parents to keep their mouth under the mouth, do not use the language to hurt the child's heart, to break the child's future. At the same time, tell the parents what to say to the child, and how parents should look at children, affirm their children, praise their children, and inspire children from a positive, positive, healthy, and bright perspective.
[first sentence] "stupid, useless thing."
tell the child: you are not stupid
who has put a "stupid" label on the child
if you don't want to let the child become "stupid"
to appreciate your child
your thumb
a simple word, can change the child's life
[second sentence] "stop! How are you? It is the disobedience. "
"obedient" children really good
do not blindly ask children to obey their
learn to speak to children
silence will be more shocking
[> > [>] "I say no," I say no. "
do not play" because I am your dad "the prestige of
" a lecture "consequence
fear is not equal to
respect children's choice
learn to discuss
listen to the child's advice
[fourth sentence]" I no longer care you, follow you better. "
don't say
don't impose your parents' wishes on children
stop empty preaching
respect is the best way to
when you criticize a child, don't hurt the child
tolerance child's "do not work hard"
do not force the child to do what he doesn't like temporarily,
[> [No. The five sentence: "if you take 100 points, I will buy it for you."
material incentives to stimulate children to learn good
the goal set for children should be a jump to get
how to help the child's most effective
to let the child know what they are so cute
to let the child know that learning is his own thing
don't see the child's score too important
[sixth sentence] "you can do this!"
only as "staff", not "commander"
"love" is not a flood beast
"thieves" hats can not be
to accept children's shortcomings
think of why children do
don't be afraid of children quarreling
> [seventh sentence]. "
allows children to make "wrong"
after failure, children need to affirm
what kind of information you are passing on to children
save a person's soul more effective than sanction body
education child is thinning not
tell the child to do one thing every day
[> [No. Eight sentence: "as soon as you don't see how big you are going to pick up,"
the balance
never say to the child: you can't do a
a confident parent
the child needs appreciation, the desire to be affirmed
give the child a chance to exercise
drive away the inferiority of the child's heart. The shadow
[ninth sentence] "all is the same child, you are not as good as others!"
education children should not unified model, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, not a white paper, no random smear
don't let the child suffer from "learned helplessness"
to sue the child: success is not the size of the role size.
the key to making the child good is
let the child learn to compete with himself
to let the child grow
[tenth sentence] "to know to play, and to learn will be lost."
what kind of education the child likes best
let the child play the heart in learning
let the child learn
the power of the child to play,
play the confidence of the child.