communicator Zhou Jie Zhao Qing reporter Wang Ying
[story]
earn 2000 dollars a month, not enough money to buy cosmetics,
for 8 years of College Students' employment related news, the reporters have to see very every year. Many newcomers took a stroll in the job fairs with enthusiasm and a little jerk. They looked forward to the first job with some expectation. In recent years, I have known many young people who have been chewing their homes at home after graduation. Most of them are from Ningbo, whose family conditions are superior.
Xiaomei is a reporter who met Bai Fumei in an interview. He was born in Ningbo in 1988, and his family is superior. Xiaomei college entrance examination results are not ideal, so in the international class in the country for a year, and later transferred to Switzerland to study business administration, studying abroad spent about 1000000 yuan. After returning home in 2011, Xiaomei spent a few months looking for a job, but the salary was only about 2000 yuan. She couldn't see it at all. "Not enough money for cosmetics!" The return on investment in studying abroad is too low, so it's better to stay at home.
parents do not want their daughter to be wronged, so that she can get along with her temperament and work slowly. Later, Xiaomei looked at the stock market at the same time while preparing for the civil service examination. A year or so, it has also given up, the stock market does not make money, it is too difficult to test civil servants.
over the past two years, she has been almost "full-time" busy dating. Parents still respect her choice - "finding a good husband is more important than earning two thousand or three thousand yuan a month."
Xiaomei said it was still boring because he didn't work. "I often have nothing to do at home. However, staying at home for a long time is very lazy. They usually wake up and wake up naturally, thinking about getting up early and not free at work. Besides, it's always tiring to deal with people in a strange environment. " Now, Xiaomei's plan is to find a suitable person quickly, get married and have children.
to go to work to see the color of the face, not to go home to see the mother's face
and the good home of the small beauty of the family, home to the Moon Lake, Xiao Ding was born in the ordinary working family, after graduation, he was also in the house for more than two years. The reporter met him at the graduate fair at the beginning of this year. At that time, he was "held" by his mother to find a job. He turned the whole morning, and he always felt "not ideal". Xiao Ding studies computers, and people are shy. Their greatest interest is playing online games. After graduating from college in 2010, Xiao Ding worked 3 jobs before and after, and the longest one was only 5 days.
"don't want to look at people's face." This is the cause of Xiao Ding's resignation. He thought it would be better to go home and look at his parents' face. Unexpectedly, the parents not only "did not give their faces", but sympathized with their son's experience, and urged him not to rush to work.
, Xiaoding also comfortably at home "house" up. At the beginning, it also browsed the work information on the Internet, slowly playing online games all day long. When he was in the house, he became more and more reassuring: "I don't have much to eat at home. I'll eat some rice and use some electricity. You can't make a lot of money when you go to work. After two years at home, Xiao Ding became more and more silent. He did not like to deal with people. He often did not go out of the house for more than 10 days.
"if we go on like this, people will be abolished!" After the Spring Festival this year, Xiao Ding's mother is intolerable. She must take her son to the job fair.
this newspaper has also reported that in the Tian Feng community, there is a boy, the family is poor, the father is less than 2000 yuan a month, the mother does some scattered cleaning. However, these did not become the driving force of his work. After graduation, I spend every day at home playing online games, sitting in front of the computer until midnight. There are 2000 families in the Tian Feng community, and 18 graduates from the family have been cheathing.
[cause]
parental consent to tolerate, the more "home" the more lazy children
graduating but not employment, the gnawing ranks more and more, there are a lot of reasons. For example, the overall employment situation, the professional setting of universities, the guidance of public opinion and so on. In the final analysis, the reasons for graduates and parents are the most important. When
contacts with these graduates, one of the main reasons is that they are used to it when they are living in a house. They are lazy and afraid.
many of them, at the beginning, only because of the gap between the ideal and the reality, can not bear the cause of wrongdoing for a moment, thinking of "going home" as a temporary "retreat", and then slowly find work. Unexpectedly, "after returning, there is no longer courage and confidence to find the way." For example, Xiaomei once sighed: "they have been idle for so many years and do not want to get used to it any more. If you start working with your classmates at the very beginning, you may get used to it.
parents' approval, acquiescence or tolerance for "gnawing old" is obviously the fertile ground for the existence of "gnawing old people".
the view of most parents is that although I graduated from University, I am still a child. After all these years, it's not bad for me to spend more time. Work slowly. It's not bad that two thousand or three thousand yuan a month.
[query]
graduation unemployment
because work is too hard to find?
why does the proportion of unemployed young people with higher education become higher? Is it really because work is too hard to find? Qian Yilin, director of Ningbo talent development center, told reporters: "compared with previous years, the employment situation of Ningbo graduates is generally good, relatively stable, and a little grim."
with the 2013 college graduates in Ningbo as an example, as of June 17th this year, more than 31600 employment agreements have been signed among college graduates in the city, and the employment rate has reached 78.94%. The average employment rate of undergraduate institutions is two times higher than that of the same period of the whole country.
from the total supply and demand relationship, the supply of university graduates can not meet the needs of enterprises and institutions. In 2013, the demand for graduates from all levels of the city's talent market at all levels was about 70 thousand (Times). After deducting the repeat part, the job position was still far greater than the supply of graduates.
Qian Yilin thought: "at present, Ningbo employment opportunities and jobs are not very small, as long as the graduates have the willingness to get employment, should be able to find work."
however, from the perspective of supply and demand structure, employment is indeed difficult. He said, "a large part of the reason is that graduates are expecting too much and hope to find jobs that are easy, decent and highly paid. The number of these jobs is small, the requirements for job seekers are high, and fewer graduates are willing to work, so it is difficult for them to find jobs.
[remind]
to make children learn to eat their own
what is more important than
"no bad one thousand or two thousand dollars", "home raised", "can't give up children to be wronged"... This is why many parents "acquiesce" in their children's homes.
for this, Qian Yilin reminds graduates and parents that their children go to work after graduation, not only on behalf of a few thousand yuan a month's wages. Even if the family has the condition to keep a child for life, let him eat old, but also can not deprive children of going out to work. If you don't go out to work for a long time, your happiness will be lower and lower. It is more important than ever to encourage children to go out of their homes and integrate themselves into society.
"although I usually heard that I had chew the old house after graduation, I didn't expect it to be so large." Mr. Zhang, the head of Ningbo Pan Asian Human Resources Co., Ltd., says: parents should not overindulge children and have the obligation and responsibility to "drive the children out of their homes to work" to help their children adjust their employment mentality. Only when we go to society and even suffer some grievances can children truly grow up and grow independently.
the head of the Ningbo Federation of trade unions also suggests that graduates can evaluate their abilities objectively and rationally face the first job, and do not want to be high and low. It is much more rational and rational to be employed first and then choose a career.