Ji'nan: let children do housework: "no money, no one."
http://sd.sdnews.com.cn/jinan/201311/t20131122_1432394.htm
Shandong commercial newspaper reporter Wang Rui
a lot of parents like to use the way of rewarding zero money to improve the enthusiasm of the children to do housework. This method was effective at that time, but now some parents have to pay for the pain made a few years ago. Recently, a few parents of the middle school students in the provincial capital complained to reporters that their children were more than ten years old, even their socks did not want to be washed; to let her (he) do some housework, he had to get some money immediately after the end of the work! "How do you say these children will live independently?"
the first two students did not have socks to wear shoes to go to school
the day before a parent of the provincial capital called the teacher to ask the teacher to help to buy a pair of socks for the child. The same day, her child went to school with her feet wearing shoes. "They are on the second grade, and their socks have never been washed. That day I asked her to wash her socks and threw all her dirty socks into the basin, thinking that she would be sure to wash it, and she didn't move, and she went to school in second days! " The parents said.
a lot of junior high school students admitted: no money, who does housework?
"I do housework to earn money!" "I am..." "Hmmm..." For several days, when reporters interviewed some middle schools in the provincial capital, many students did not deny that they were doing household chores to earn money. "In our house, cleaning dishes and cleaning tables are all marked price." At the beginning of the first two girls, Xiao Jia told the reporter, brush a bowl of 1 yuan, a plate of 2 yuan, a brush pot of 5 yuan, a spoon or a pair of chopsticks a pair of 0.5 yuan, wipe table once 3 yuan...
reporters recently learned from the provincial capital that most parents have adopted material or monetary rewards in order to develop a good life and study habits for their children. And as children grow older, parents generally add new troubles: why not give money or reward, children have no incentive?
School: the whole school can't find a few
the reporter learned that a lot of primary schools in the provincial capital have made a "manual of behavior" for the students, and the children take home to let parents fill in. There are self-supporting items like finishing schoolbags, wearing clothes and wearing shoelaces, such as folding quilts, washing socks, cleaning the floor, brush bowls, trailing ground, dumplings, and platters. "There is no one in the manual that is not" excellent ", so we can see that the students are working. Teacher Li told reporters that a primary school team instructor in the provincial capital, but before the May Day, the school will organize the students to participate in the "labor competition", "the whole school can not find a few entries." That is, some of them can barely participate, and they are selling them now, and they simply can't afford them.
Mr. Li told reporters that he had seen a boy of grade 2 shoelace on campus and dragged away. "I told him to tie his shoelaces and run, he said he wouldn't do it. I helped him and let him go home. After a few days, he walked with his shoelaces and said no, and in a few days, I found he had changed shoes without shoelaces."
and in another primary school in the provincial capital, the teacher of the class Zhao told the reporter, "the children now do not do the housework. They don't even want to do it on duty, not to mention the housework." The teacher said that even parents in the class suspected children of coming home late and called to say that they would not let their children on duty. "Now many parents will adopt this way to reward children to do housework. We do not agree, but there is no alternative." "Good housework habits should be cultivated from childhood and not by material stimulation. In this respect, family education and school education are antithetical. Mr. Li said.