Rich love
Wen / hu man di
daughter wants to be rich, is heard from a mother. She commissioned a lawyer, Mr. Old Dan, to study for her two children, a boy, a girl, from China to the United States, and a challenge for two children aged more than 10.
she carefully asked all of the tiny links of girls studying abroad, from school to residence, a few times and repeated questions that seemed to be unreassuring. Finally, I still feel that I am not practical enough to let my daughter bring her Chinese babysitter to the United States. After thinking about it, she sent her daughter to the United States to study, to help her dormitory, to accompany her daughter to the new welcoming meeting, to accompany her daughter to the campus, to accompany her daughter to the campus, and to leave her. She said her daughter had never left her, she had never left her, what her daughter wanted, and really did not want the daughter to suffer. For her, the daughter is to be rich.
she did not do much research on her son's study abroad, saying that his son came to the United States to study, that is, to exercise him, it is good to endure hardship. It seems that boys experience hardships and falls, which is good for her. Boys do not seem to be afraid of anything. They adapt quickly to new schools and do not have any bad habits of rich families. In the era of rich two generations making all kinds of incredible deeds, the son's words and deeds seemed somewhat different.
once wrote in an article, "the girl is to be rich, see the world rich, will not be moved by any small profits, no opportunity for the evil people." The result is a lot of message, said that it is misleading, not all parents can bear rich financial resources, if the rich and rich, will make many parents because of financial resources, and feel inferiority, to the original unequal society, resulting in more spiritual frost.
this enrichment, if considered to be only money and daughter's satisfaction, has misinterpreted my original intention. In fact, the real eutrophication is actually a way of love, not only material, but also spiritual and even time.
material satisfaction is the easiest to achieve, but it may have opposite effects on girls. If a girl is from childhood to be filled with material, what the parents want to get, their parents try to do it for her. They are rich in material and have seen something green and green. They think everything comes easy. In fact, the material can never reach the extreme, rich and precious is no end, always have more than their own wealth, more dignified people, people than people, dead people. In adulthood, in the journey of life slowly, if the girl sees more and more people than himself, there is a sense of difference and a strong sense of frustration. In order to meet the material needs, it may not be discounted.
eutrophication is actually a spiritual sublimation of love. A mother, reading with her children from an early age, gave her daughter two small books every night when her daughter could not read, and told her about the world outside. The ancients said that the book has its own house of gold. Books, books, can be borrowed from the library, the general family can bear, the book has astronomical geography, there is human nature, moral philosophy, endless knowledge, can take no account of the world's scenery, can unfold the wings of imagination anytime and anywhere, let thoughts fly, can talk to the ancients, can learn a few To know all the languages, to know the world is great, to be curious, to treat all kinds of prosperity and glitz. The accumulation of wisdom of all mankind for thousands of years is in the book. Girls can really read all over the world from childhood, so they are really rich.
it is only in this society that the pace of life is growing faster and more and more pressure is in the present society. As a parent, especially the rich parents, the responsibility is great, the time to accompany the children is less and less, and the baby is mostly the babysitter. Although children can be educated at school, they can hardly communicate with busy parents at home, let alone their parents' inculcation. The love of rich and rich, in fact, is a share of the parents' time, and the most important thing is to care for the children, especially their daughters, to share their spiritual growth.
children who are truly rich in their parents are not only a girl, but an incomparable spirit. In the future, it is necessary to be able to meet the difficulties in their life. It is the fruit of the wisdom of being rich and rich.
2013-5-16 manuscript @ Philadelphia
note: "the wisdom of love" column, published in the "Tianjin daily" supplement published every Wednesday in 2013