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in the Beijiao town nursing home in Zhoucun District, 70 year old Shi Zhide and 48 year old Shi Cuiling lived happily together, and their reunion made a lot of old age. Years of man envied. Newspaper reporter Jiang Wenjie
23 days is the Chongyang Festival, the reporter investigated a number of pension institutions in Zibo, interviewed the Civil Affairs Bureau, the Lu Zhong notary office, at present, because the children disagree, property disputes and other reasons, the elderly remarriage has met a lot of resistance, which makes some old people who want to find their friends very embarrassed.
[b] children do not agree with [/b]
[b] old people to break up [/b]
23 days, reporters from the Zhangdian District Jinqiao old apartment to understand that the apartment originally planned to hand in the three elderly, all because of the children's block and break up, the present, the old people have their own lives. "
the director of the senior apartment of Jinqiao elderly apartment said:" they were between 70 and 80 years old, and one of them had been registered in the registration office, but was blocked by the family. At the end, two people were separated. " "In fact, the elderly are not alone, but they want to talk to someone," Ping said.
[b] property inheritance disputes [/b]
[b] marriage registration of the elderly [/b]
reporter from the Zhangdian District Civil Affairs Bureau and the Zibo City Lu notarization, the difficulties encountered by the remarriage of the elderly, mainly caused by property problems.
according to the staff of the Civil Affairs Bureau of Zhangdian District, although the Civil Affairs Bureau did not count the remarriage of older people over 65 years of age, it can be seen from the daily work that there is not much registration of remarriage for the elderly. "4 windows in charge of registration, a day and one window to register dozens of pairs, the elderly registered a few".
Zibo Lu notary service one department staff said that this year, there are 10 remarried elderly to the notary office to consult, the consultation content is all related to the inheritance and distribution of property.
the staff said that the old people remarried, most of the children worried about the future property inheritance, distribution, some children asked their parents to make pre marital property notarization, and some children, because the property is not willing to remarry their parents.
[b] and unmarried trend [/b]
[b] legal protection but lack of [/b]
reporter found that more and more single elderly face "dusk love", "companion without marriage" became their best choice.
"marriage without marriage is a common occurrence." Kim Joe, the director of the elderly apartment, said that, compared with the troublesome procedure and huge resistance to register for marriage, most of the elderly still prefer to be married instead of marriage, which saves the trouble and can find the friends of life.
Ping director said that now there are 200 people in the apartment, she has been working for so many years. It is rare that their families often come to see the old people and chat with the old people, which leads to the loneliness of the old people.
"some children do not agree to remarry for their property reasons, others do not understand old people's remarriage." Director Ping said that the old man who was not speaking was very lonely and remarried so difficult that many people chose to marry but not marry.
marriage without marriage is a helpless choice for the elderly. But unregistered marriages lack legal protection. In addition, according to the current marriage law of China, this situation also involves the problems of property division and inheritance in the future, and many of the rights and interests of the elderly can not be protected.
director Meng of the aging service center of the city of Zibo said that there are some reasons for the presence of unmarried couples, hoping and suggesting that the remarriage of the elderly should be adopted in a formal way, and they also want their children to understand and support the remarriage of the single elderly.
[b] / > link: support the remarriage of parents is included in the new "24 filial piety" [/b]
"often with a lover, children go home, holidays as far as possible with parents..." In August 13th of this year, the new "24 filial piety" action standard was jointly issued by the National Women's Federation coordination office on aging work, the national Aging office and the National Committee for the series of activities of the series of activities of the series of activities of the National Heart Series, which has been included in the remarriage of single parents.