How much time do you have with your parents in a year?
to the Spring Festival, people working outside the city rush home. The parents' expectation and the warmth of their family are the most important concerns of their hearts. Zhao Xiaoming's reporter Ma Teng
a day ago, in the Tianya community Ji'nan edition, a title is entitled "will be the new year, busy you have not calculated how much time with parents in this year?", quickly received the attention of Internet users. Some netizens lamented that "two times a year, it doesn't take two weeks to add up."
near the Spring Festival, people set foot on their way home again.
yesterday, the reporter found that some office workers have been working for 7 years, and the time of accompanying parents at home is still less than half a year.
net friends sent "confession post" to pay attention to
last December 20th, Ji'nan netizen "lonely flow into the heart" post of his own heart. He is also a floating family in Ji'nan and spends every day in busy work. Before New Year's day, mother came to Ji'nan for 5 days.
in addition to the first day to go out to buy food, shopping, the rest of the time he did not deal with all kinds of business, is working in the unit, "these 5 days, I have not been able to give my mother a few teapot. I really don't know what you're busy with.
when his mother left, he complained to him, "you don't have much time to accompany me when you come to Ji'nan to see you." It made him feel bad.
didn't cause too much concern from netizens at first. Until these days, as people go home for the new year, the mood is becoming more and more urgent. This post is gradually being pushed up. Netizens began to focus on how much time they could spend with their parents. In a year, the longest time to accompany parents is only one month, the shortest is only one or two days.
some netizens said, "when we were children, our parents gave us all their time and love. But when we have the ability to repay, we find that we do not even have time to chat with our parents.
7 years of working with parents less than 6 months
how much time can you go home with parents? For many people, the answer is very heavy.
Ms. Che is a civil servant. Her hometown is in Weihai. There are many kinds of vacations, but there are too few time to squeeze them home. Most of her vacation time was devoted to work and friends. Overtime can lay the foundation for future work, and even entertainment can become a part of making friends, widening horizons and enhancing knowledge.
each year has a fixed annual holiday, plus a variety of statutory holidays, the car lady reckless, a year can go home to accompany the parents of the time, up to 3 weeks. As a result, in Ji'nan, it took less than 6 months to accompany parents at home for more than 7 years. "When I graduated from university in 2005, the number of times I went home in the past few years has not changed much." Wu Yijun, a native of Langfang, said that he had gone home for 5 times in the past few years, up to 4 days at a time. Apart from sleeping and seeing friends, he really had little time to accompany his parents. He has already reserved his ticket in advance. He must go home for the Spring Festival this year, only to spend more time with his parents.
70% parents want their children to ask the warm and warm
"it's not that we don't want to go home and see, but there is no that condition. After 80, the pressure is very big, no matter from work, money or time, we don't allow us to go home." In a hairdresser near Hai Wei square, Meng Qingzhuang, a working boy from Linyi, told his helplessness.
a net friend of the Ji'nan edition of Tianya community said, "who does not want to go home and see her parents, what's the price, house price, medical care, children's education and so on, how much is the income? I haven't been back in 4 years."
no matter how many children do not go home, parents always expect their children to come back from their heart, and the whole family has a family reunion dinner.
Sina's "New Year's home, you most want what" survey results show that all elderly people want their children to go home for the new year. The old people think that only when they get together with their children can they be regarded as the real Chinese New Year. But the survey shows that 32% of them can not go home to reunite with their parents for various reasons.
more than 70% of parents want their children to warm themselves. In their view, how much gifts their children buy is not important, and children's consideration is the most important. More than 60% of the elderly do not want their children to buy high-end gifts. If the gifts are too expensive, they will waste their children's money. "I've been busy outside for a year and I really want to hurry home and rest." After reading the text message from his son two days ago, Xu aunt, the official camp, shed tears.