How to solve the problem of the nearly million rights of the elderly in Ji'nan
yesterday, the newspaper reported that "the child who was abused by the babysitter to commit suicide" has attracted readers' attention. Behind this incident is the fact that the elderly are lonely and their children lack psychological care. Because of the natural weakness of economy and physical strength, many elderly people have to face up to the problems of supporting, inheriting and providing for the aged. A survey from relevant departments showed that nearly 80% of the elderly in Ji'nan had difficulties in their lives, and more than 1/3 of them felt lonely. What is the living condition of the elderly in Ji'nan? How do children find their psychological changes? What are the problems to be paid attention to when the babysitter is invited? Yesterday, the reporter conducted a survey.
Mr. Yang, 77 years old, lives near Beiyuan street. He wants to find a wife to live with. But his son was worried that the property would be separated by foreigners, and he would stay in his father's house. Mr. Yang found a lawyer and wanted to fight a lawsuit, but he could not help thinking about the future pension problem. Yesterday, the reporter learned that, as a result of the natural weakness of the economy and physical strength, many elderly people in the face of support, inheritance and other issues, have to stand out, silently bear.
son bully house prevents father from remarried.
Mr. Yang's wife died many years ago, and he has lived alone in recent years. As he grows older, he hopes to spend the rest of his life together with his wife, who can take care of each other.
since he told the idea to his youngest son, he immediately rented out his house and moved into his home. On the surface, the son was afraid of his father being sneered at. In fact, he did not want to let outsiders divide his father's property. "The house is my own, can't I do it?" Mr. Yang said that the house belonged to him. He reminded his son to stay at home for many times, but his son did not agree. The father and son had quarreled many times, but the son was reluctant to go.
under the helplessness of the elderly, Mr. Yang, through the aging department, came to the rights workstation of the migrant workers in Shandong Province, which often maintained rights for the elderly, and found a full-time lawyer, Zhang Jingtao.
think of future retirement giving up rights protection
from a legal point of view, the situation reflected by Mr. Yang is easy to handle. The house is his own. He has the right to decide the ownership of the right to use. But Zhang Jingtao, who has been engaged in the work of protecting the rights of the elderly for many years, does not encourage Mr. Yang to go to court with his son.
Zhang Jingtao said Mr. Yang's situation is very special. He has three children. The older daughter has been divorced for many years, and his life is not good. He has not been in contact with his family for many years. The elder son was paralyzed in bed and was unable to take care of his father. If Mr. Yang is in poor health, he can only be looked after by his youngest son. "If they are in conflict, the biggest influence must be Mr. Yang. Although the law stipulates that children must fulfill their duty of maintenance, who can supervise him every day? " Zhang Jingtao said, according to past experience, he suggested that through the street office, neighborhood committees and other departments, let Mr. Yang and his son reach a settlement.
hearing the lawyer's suggestion, Mr. Yang was also worried about the future pension problem and had to give up the idea of prosecution temporarily.
most of the elderly are infringed mainly by mediation,
yesterday, the reporter learned from the Ji'nan Aging Committee that, at present, the elderly over 60 years old in Ji'nan are close to millions, and the number of people is increasing year by year.
Mr., a staff member of the Ji'nan Municipal Committee on aging, said that about 1/4 of the telephone calls they received every year were the elderly reflecting the tort. Among them, the proportion of supporting and inheriting problems is relatively large.
Mr. Yuan, director of the geriatric office in Lixia District, said that at present, there are more than 70 thousand elderly people in Lixia District, and the number of infringement complaints by the elderly is decreasing year by year. Relatively speaking, the elderly have disadvantages in economy and physical strength. In order to consider their future life, the "old age" event is mainly mediated. Even if the elderly prosecute, the court is mostly settled by mediation.
endowment is not the main reason because
"reconciliation is also bad, that is, there may be a vicious circle." Zhang Jingtao said that for children who infringe on the rights and interests of the elderly, reconciliation can solve the problem temporarily, but not due punishment will allow them to be more unscrupulous and less respectful of the elderly. The old man always makes a lot of pain when he tries to compromise.
Zhang Jingtao said that as the elderly have natural disadvantages in economic, physical, knowledge, and legal awareness, the elderly are often injured after the two sides are in contradiction. At present, although there are laws and regulations to protect the elderly, it is not easy to carry out them. "The Chinese way of providing for the aged is mainly family support, and the Chinese value their affection more. Many elderly people can not live away from their children. In the case of a single way of providing for the aged, it is indeed difficult for the elderly to safeguard their rights and interests, especially when they are in conflict with their children. Zhang Jingtao said that in recent years, new ways of providing for the aged, such as home care, are being tried, which is beneficial to improving the living environment of the elderly. But in the short term, the difficulty of safeguarding the rights of the elderly will continue for some time.
a survey of older people over 70 years old in Ji'nan shows that
is economically a mentally weak person who needs to take care of
yesterday, the reporter learned from the Ji'nan Aging Committee that in September 2008, they had conducted an assessment of the life status of the city of Ji'nan, 70 and the elderly, and the assessment of the living conditions of the elderly and the elderly in September 2008. The research of old and old. The results showed that 80% of the elderly had difficulty in living and more than 30% felt lonely.
the survey data of
below the average level of the city showed that the per capita monthly income of the elderly in Ji'nan was 573.65 yuan, only 62.5% of the total average of Ji'nan.
the income and consumption level of the elderly are lower than the average level of the total population. On the one hand, it reflects the continuous development of Ji'nan's social economy, which has its objectivity and rationality. On the other hand, the economy of parents and children is basically separated, and most of the elderly are weak in the economy as the supported population, and their consumption level depends largely on the provision of their children, which leads to the relatively low living standards of the elderly.
40% more elderly people living on their children's
survey shows that over 90% of the elderly in Ji'nan are single economic sources. Children's supply and pensions account for 43.30% and 28.53% of the total number of respondents, respectively, and are the most important source of income for the elderly.
when people are in the prime of life, their income is mainly used to maintain family life and production expenses. When you are old, you can save less. The old people who retire in the irregular enterprises and institutions have two ways of living after their old age: one is to get economic income by their own labor; the two is to provide the economic source by their children. This is the only economic source of the rural elderly after losing their ability to work. Thus, the "family pension" is the main way for the rural population to provide for the aged. More than 80% of the elderly's children in Ji'nan have no burden, and they can basically assume the responsibility of supporting the elderly in the economy.
can have enough food and clothing but the ability to provide for the aged is less than
nearly 80% of the elderly have difficulties in life, mainly due to economic difficulties. According to the survey, about 75.51% of the elderly in Ji'nan have various difficulties, and only 24.49% of them do not have difficulties. Nearly half of the elderly with
difficulties had two or more than two difficulties, and 54.07% had one difficulty. Only 9.14% of the elderly people who were actually remedied.
accounts for 72% of those who do not think they have enough savings to provide for the elderly. The survey also shows that only 27.96% of the elderly people think "savings, enough for the aged" is only 72.04%, which shows that the ability to provide for the aged is insufficient.
data show that about 1/3 of elderly people feel lonely occasionally, and about 4% of elderly people often feel lonely or feel lonely all the time.
through this survey, relevant experts also put forward the following suggestions to improve the living conditions of the elderly in Ji'nan. We should co-ordinate efforts to solve the problem of middle-aged and elderly population and create a harmonious environment for the elderly. Concern, concern, concern and concern for the difficulties faced by the elderly population and life, and increase the financial and economic support strength.
establish and perfect the standard old-age insurance system as soon as possible. The government should give special funds and policy support to those special populations who have no living labor ability, low economic level and elderly people who have entered the ranks of the elderly. And in combination with rural reality, the rural elderly, children and the government (collective) three parties jointly participated in the support pension, to solve the old-age security problems of rural elderly.
improve the medical assistance system to ensure that there is an old doctor. The government AIDS social pension service institutions to improve the development power of the silver industry. With the means of market adjustment, the enthusiasm of the state, the collective, the social organizations and individuals is played, and the social forces are mobilized to invest in the old people's apartments and the welfare homes for the elderly in many ways.
care for the elderly is best to ask the attendant at the age of 40 years old
children should always pay attention to the psychological changes of the elderly
with the pace of life, many children need to ask housekeeping attendants to take care of the elderly. So, how do you pick the right waiters? If the old man is unhappy, what will he do? Yesterday, reporters also interviewed insiders and psychologists.
Gao Yuzhi, deputy general manager of Ji'nan sunshine elder sister Service Co., Ltd., said that caring for the elderly is not an easy thing to do. It has been done for a long time and the waiters will have some psychological fluctuations. If this emotion is not resolved, there may be some extreme behavior. When a citizen asks a home attendant, he should go to a regular home economics company, preferably a waiter over 40 years old. They are more patient when they take care of the elderly.
is it appropriate to use camera to supervise the waiter? Gao Yuzhi believes that the problem of the waiter is still a minority. If the employer uses a camera, it will give the waiters a repugnance, although they do not do the irregularities, but they do not serve better with emotional work. Both sides should trust each other.
yesterday, the reporter also summed up the psychological problems of the elderly through many psychological experts. Due to the decline in economic income and social status after retirement, the elderly will feel no more respected and attached to them, resulting in a sense of loss and inferiority, expressing grumbling, complaining, and accusing their children or past colleagues and subordinates.
because of the widowhood, the work of the children leaving home, the old age and the disease, the loss of joy in life, the loss of confidence in the future, and even the pessimistic outlook on the future of life, there is a negative and negative grey mentality for anyone and anything. Some elderly people are biased against the outside world, thus blocking themselves, creating a sense of loneliness and helplessness and becoming fearful of the outside world.
children should communicate and chat with their parents, and always pay attention to the psychological changes of the elderly. If the elderly have insomnia, excessive anxiety, and do one thing repeatedly, it shows that they may have psychological problems.