Re: family planning cadres were investigated for 12 years.
a mother who lost her only child found the glimmering of life after she got her son's QQ number. The old man who had never touched the computer learned to get on the Internet by himself. Every day it was not bright. She climbed up and opened the computer, entered the password, waited for the lower right corner of the screen and the QQ head of her son to start - almost as a regular ceremony that she entered into the other world every day.
"son, mom." The mother said.
"Mom, I want to die you!" She replied with her son's QQ.
every day, the mother took at least 20 hours to talk to the "son", and only when the "son" and "mother"'s QQ head relied on her, she thought the mother and mother were reunion.
"buddy, I'm getting married soon. Unfortunately, you can't go to the scene with the members. You're not very interesting." A friend said in the space of his son.
seeing this sentence, the mother did not know how many times she cried. She replied to her friend with her son's voice: "rest assured, blessing will come."
on the wedding day, she pushed the ritual gold into the hands of her son's friend at the door, and cried and turned away.
in addition to QQ and "son" communication, more than 90% of the parents who have been interviewed by Korean students will "keep" their children in their own unique way.
a "lost" father in Wuhan is a government official who always wears neat suits during the day and works with a meticulous tie. When he returned home in the evening and took off the suit, he would sit on the floor all night, holding his son's ash box, and repeating his mouth: "son, let dad hold you." In this way, he had been lying on the floor for 8 hot summers and a very cold winter.
"children suddenly leave, in their eyes, everything that is related to children is fresh life, can breathe, can speak." Han Shengxue sighed.
in Wuhan, when a mother lost her daughter, he locked himself in her daughter's less than 10 square meter room 24 hours a day, in addition to the occasional purchase of some of the necessities of life. She kept all the arrangements in her daughter's room, and even treasured her daughter's hair and deciduous teeth. Every day she stroked every item in the house, her desks, chairs, blankets, clothes, book pens and toys.
many parents who have lost contact with each other have written to their children to write a letter to their children. In a letter to the dead son, one mother wrote, "my beloved son, for the whole world, you are only a dust, but for me, you are my whole world."