Ji'nan:
Qilu Evening Newspaper author: Wang Chieh
at the industrial South Road Yi and Zhuang's Ji'nan yuan new nursing home, has been established for 17 years. There are more than 50 elderly people living here. Some of them live in order to recuperate their illness, others to enjoy good health, others to lighten their children's burden. Although the reasons for retirement are different, they are all well cared for. Sun Xuemei, the head of the nursing home, seems to be improving with the improvement of the conditions, but the children often neglect the spiritual needs of the elderly.
thanks to coming here, otherwise it really can not support. Now
yuan new nursing home was founded in 2000, it has been 17 years ago. 69 year old Zhou Wenhui, who has lived in the hospital for 16 years, has witnessed the transition from a quadrangle to a three - story building, from 4 to more than 50 old people.
about 16 years of nursing home life, Zhou Wenhui used the most words are satisfied, fortunately, here, otherwise I really can not support the present.
at the age of 30, Zhou Wenhui suffered from rheumatism. At the age of 50, rheumatoid diseases became more and more serious. Zhou Wenhui's legs were stiff and unable to get out of bed. After the old companion left the world, Zhou Wenhui collapsed. I was left alone in my family. Both my sons were busy, and even if I went to the hospital, I had to ask for leave. I was lying in bed, crying all day, and I was afraid to stay at home and die.
look at the old man, and nobody is at home. Zhou Wenhui is going to the nursing home. If you get sick, at least someone knows. She didn't even think of herself. She lived in Yuan new nursing home for 16 years.
just a few months before he came in, Zhou Wenhui was very depressed. He cried every day. He thought he would die quickly. But the caretakers urged me to live well, chat with me every day, relax, help me massage, cure my illness, and take care of my food, drink and Lazarus. In this way, Zhou Wenhui regained the courage of life and gradually recovered from his health.
stayed for 16 years, Zhou Wenhui only once thought of going home. In 2001, the yuan new home for the aged was smaller, just a quadrangle. In winter, the honeycomb briquette stove is used for heating. Zhou Wenhui, who is afraid of cold, wants to go home. After I knew the nursing home, I specially added a stove for me. The son also suggested finding a full-time babysitter for him, but the caretakers carefully took care of him, which made Zhou Wenhui feel reluctant to give up. Two thousand or three thousand yuan a month, compared with full-time nanny, here is more comfortable.
now, Zhou Wenhui and the nursing home care workers are like a family. My son doesn't know how to lift me up and take care of them. They know. Zhou Wenhui's mouth is not good, the food is stewed and then feed the old people do not love to waste food, the workers directly eat the rest of the food to eat, and their children can not do.
live a few years more, see the social development
with Zhou Wenhui's situation, family to Li Mengwu elderly care, but he volunteered to live in the nursing home. Freedom here, and special care. At home is always unconsciously want to help the children, but when you are old, you should enjoy the happiness.
Li Mengwu old man is 93 years old. He is very intelligent. Li Lao wrote a good handwriting, and many calligraphy works in the old age room of the nursing home came from his handwriting.
at the age of 60, Li Mengwu retired from the machinery factory, and he became a doorman. He worked for more than 10 years. Unable to move, I was thinking of finding a home for the aged, quiet and quiet. Li Mengwu's sons do not agree with their idea of going to a nursing home. They are too traditional and feel bad about going to a nursing home. I feel good, no friends at home chatting, nor professional maintenance.
sons disagree, Li Meng five plans quietly by himself. In 2003, Li Mengwu, 80 of the year, traveled to half a city in Ji'nan, inspected more than ten nursing homes, and finally came to Yuan new home for the aged. Those (nursing homes) can't manage. The old man smokes and drinks in the house.
My son disagrees, so I sneak in. Li Mengwu said that the two sons, one in the country in the city, said to the son of the city to go back to the town, and to speak to the country's son to go to the city for a week, and they found that they were not right, and then they had to agree.
at that time, Li Mengwu had a monthly pension of more than 500 yuan, which was just enough for the nursing home. Someone advised me to say that all the old books are out of the question. I came here two times before I made up my mind that the pension conditions really appealed to me.
with the rise of rent and human cost, the charge for nursing homes has risen from 500 yuan a month to 1500 yuan a month, and the pension of Li Meng five is also up to 3000 yuan for a lifetime, and it should also spend some money on his own. Li Mengwu said that an old man died on the same floor, leaving ten thousand yuan for his children, but he could not remember where he left it because he forgot something. Look! It's no use keeping money. It's right to remain on your own.
every year, Li Mengwu's family will take him home for the new year. Zhou Wenhui and I lived there longest, but now we have two. At that time, four people took a group photo, Li Mengwu old man sentimental way. Speaking of new year's wishes, Li Mengwu said, "live a few more years, enjoy it, and see social development.
first try to stay down, a residence is 9 years
in Yuan new home for the aged, most of the elderly two people an apartment. Liu Zhenying, 93, lived in a room with Zhou Wenhui. Although not long enough for Zhou Wenhui and Li Mengwu to come here, she has lived for more than 9 years.
the old man has a silvery hair, healthy, fast speaking and high pitched voice. The old man worked in the town of Sun Village, because the house was demolished and his family was taken home. Although one child and five daughters, but many years of rural living alone, Liu Zhenying is very unaccustomed to urban life.
Liu Zhenying called her old age, never lived with her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law was almost 60 years old. In this way, the son consulted with him and sent Liu Zhenying to the nursing home. After looking at the environment, I thought I was OK. I tried it first. I lived there for 9 years.
after the demolition and reconstruction, the old man had a 60 - Square - meter building, but he was unable to climb the building because of his own legs and feet, and failed to live alone. After consulting the whole family, the family decided to sell the new house, and the money was used to provide for the aged. At first, Liu Zhenying's children had found full-time nannies for them, and they spent two thousand or three thousand yuan a month, but they could not find them satisfied.
the son lives in Jinan Iron and steel dormitory, near the nursing home, they visit each other. Years of nursing home life, Liu Zhenying is pleased with himself, food and clothing are good, at home can not be changed three meals a day.
I'd like to be here for the year. Liu Zhenying, the old man said, the first few years of the Spring Festival children come home for their own home for the new year, she does not want to go back, it is inconvenient, young people late to sleep late, and their own law of life is not to adjust. She also advised some elderly people to say that the old concept of children's pension should be changed.
Sun Xuemei, head of nursing homes, says that more and more elderly people are changing their minds and choosing to provide nursing homes for the elderly. More than half of the elderly are like this. Their children often come to visit, some even come every day.
Spring Festival approaching, Sun Xuemei and nursing workers are in the process of preparation. There is a dinner party. The first time the old man in the nursing home was lost, so we coaxed to accompany him for second years. It's noisy here. Some elderly people and family members are not happy to come home to celebrate the new year.
care for the elderly is to understand the old man's idea
on hardware condition and scale, Yuan new nursing home in Ji'nan belongs to medium level, but hard to find. From the original courtyard to a three storey building, from 4 to the elderly in the hospital to more than 50 elderly people. It is so hot that it is attributed to the meticulous care of nursing workers in nursing homes.
with Sun Xuemei as an example, she was a pediatrician who was difficult to get out of the mental haze because of a serious illness. After recommended by a friend, she came to the yuan new nursing home for recuperation.
instead of recuperation, they lock themselves in the house and do not go out every day. After some time, Sun Xuemei, who was depressed, began to try to volunteer. The first service was to help the old man get a haircut. After finishing, the old man happily closed his mouth, and praised me with all his strength. The old man is happy, and I am happy in my heart. Later, I realized that it was a happy body and mind, and it was no longer the same as before.
in this way, Sun Xuemei gradually became addicted to volunteering. At that time, all the sheets of the nursing home were washed by me. I was tired but never complained. Instead, the clothes were reduced, the target was reduced, and the heart was not happy.
the mood is getting better and better, and Sun Xuemei is getting better. Two or three years later, Sun Xuemei decided to resign as a nursing worker. More than 10 years of persistence, Sun Xuemei has become the head of the yuan new nursing home. Personnel management, menu, help the elderly quit smoking, and so on.
her efforts, the old people in the eyes, joy in heart. Grandma Li, more than 70, suffers from cerebellar atrophy and is unable to express herself in bed all day. In order to take care of her, Sun Xuemei came up with a blinking service. I said to her, "if you want to drink water, you will blink your eyes. If you don't want to drink, you will not blink apples or eat pears, and you will blink your eyes when you eat pears.
hung a reminder board in Sun Xuemei's office, which details the birthdays of everyone in the hospital. In the past few years, when Grandma Li celebrated her birthday, Sun Xuemei was still unhappy about cooking her long life noodles. She didn't feel happy until her family arrived. Since then, Sun Xuemei realized that caring for the old man's mind was not enough.
there is a retired university professor living in the nursing home. The old man can never understand. On one occasion, I inspected the room, and the old man pulled me to tell me a story. His children said they were busy, and what stories did you tell them? Sun Xuemei said that his family had no intention of saying a word so that the old man was very frustrated. Caring for the elderly was the idea of the old man. But nowadays, many children often neglect it.