Re: cold winter Ji'nan lonely elderly sample survey: sadness and happiness of 3 elderly people living alone
two hours to wear clothes, the greatest pleasure is to find someone to pull
Mr. Li Lao, 83 years old, live in an old district in the northwest of Ji'nan. It's the old apartment.
more than 10 years ago, because of sudden cerebral thrombosis, Mr. Li Lao could not move his left body, and soon afterwards his wife left. He began to live a man's life. According to introducing, he has two sons and a daughter, the work is very busy. "Look at my left hand, I can't stretch straight, I can't lift it." As he spoke, Mr. Li continued to straighten his left hand with his right hand. He could just straighten up his left hand and his fingers were uncontrolled.
"every day is to go out in the sun and meet an acquaintance." Mr. Li said that the operators of the surrounding shops, the old comrades in the residential areas, and those who received the waste products and sent water were his "Acquaintances".
now, Mr. Li Lao eats all his children by his children. He can only come by his own clothes. Because only one hand can force, it is a trouble for Uncle Li. "Now that there are so many cold clothes, it takes me one or two hours to wear them once."
[character: old Li: 62 years old: 62 years old)
not going out early and late, as soon as it comes home, it is locked in
for two days in a row, and the weather suddenly becomes cold. In the evening of November 2nd, outside the District of Qing Ya Ju, the cry of the shop was endless, and residents also wore winter clothes to travel. Li Hong, a 62 year old old man who lost his only name (a pseudonym), locked the door early and stayed alone at home watching TV.
17:30, the reporter once again knocked Li Hong's door open. She opened the door from the house with a key and greet the reporter. "Baby, I'll fry the chicken for you." I tear up the chicken skin, and I'll do it in a minute, you wait. " The conversation went to the kitchen again.
living in low rent housing, life is on the move, but living alone, or letting Li Hongchang worry about his safety. "I'm old enough to see so many accidents on TV, I'm scared," she said, pointing to the window. "There was a watch on TV and someone stole from the window in the window at night, and I didn't sleep well at night."
"now do not go out sooner or later. When the sun comes out, go out to buy food, finish what you want to do, and lock the door when you come back." Li Lao Tai said, "my heart is bad. I can't go far now."
this newspaper reported the story of Li Hong, who lost the old man in September 16th. The staff of the street office of Pingan shop contacted her WeChat every day. She kept in touch with her classmates and neighbors of the old university. "I just had a phone call and asked me if I went to the theatre!" but Li Lao Tai refused, "before the national day, I was on the bus." When I was sick, I almost collapsed. Fortunately, I took medicine with me. The people in the car took care of me. My body is not as good as before.
experts say
how to make the old man not lonely?
according to Dong Xia, a psychologist, the season and climate have great psychology for people, and the weather is cold in the near future, and the lonely and abandoned feeling is easy for the old people to live alone. If there is no emotional communication, it is easier to produce pessimism and pessimism. "In winter, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases are more frequent. If there is no help from the elderly, it is easy to be dangerous."
"for the empty nest elderly group, the community can organize activities to enable the elderly to have hobbies such as Peking Opera, calligraphy and painting appreciation, and flower cultivation. Caring for empty nest elderly needs long-term and regular sex. Dong Xia said.
"caring for empty nest elderly, children's actions are most important." Dong Xia said that children often go home to see, often communicate with the elderly, to resolve the loneliness of the elderly. If we care for the elderly one day or another, after the day, the psychological gap of the elderly will be greater and more prone to loneliness.