origin: Zhejiang online
"when you are old, I hope Looking at the passing years, you are only beautiful. When you are old, I hope the days that accompany you will be longer and better. The tide of the years is engraved with a mother's mark. This is a poem written by the urban man Xu Zhijian to his mother, and he expects to be able to see more scenery and eat more delicious food that she has not seen in the rest of his mother's time, which may be less regrettable.
today is mother's day. I believe that the praise and blessing of the mother in the circle of friends will emerge in an endless stream. Compared to this, Xu Zhijian is not very keen on this festival. He feels that his day is mother's day. Because, as long as he was free, he would take a mother in a wheelchair and go to a place he had never been to. For 20 years, they had traveled more than half of China.
"I just want to prevent her from living too monotonously and hope that she will be happy". Xu Zhijian, a multi year-old
40, is doing steel processing business in Wenzhou steel market. He looks very strong, but his heart is very delicate. He likes to write poems and essays.
is such a person who persisted in his commitment to his mother for 20 years. His story is a legend in his circle of friends. In
1996, Xu Zhijian's father passed away, and his mother, hibiscus, was gradually depressed. He stayed alone for a long time without speaking. In order to make her mother in a better mood, he would take her mother out for a holiday whenever he was free, he said, "I just think she can't live too much, and I hope she will be happy."
but unfortunately not faded, 8 years ago, Sheng Fu Rong because of the brain haemorrhage, the right side of the body hemiplegic, to the bathroom, bathing, wear clothes, eat, all need to be taken care of. With friends and relatives, it is better to stay in the city to enjoy happiness since their mother is too old and not in good health.
Xu Zhijian also worried about her mother's body. Once, when she saw her mother had a high blood pressure, she let her rest at home and travel with her wife and daughter. But afterwards, the mother was very unhappy and asked why he didn't take her out. Xu Zhijian was very guilty. After that, he would take his mother wherever he went.
from Qianshan snow to Sichuan to Gansu. In the past 20 years, he put his head in a car, pushed his mother in a wheelchair, and traveled all over the mountains and rivers except Lhasa and Heilongjiang.
"let my son drive, see"
"
Spring Festival this year, Xu Zhijian took her mother and family to drive from Wenzhou, took the time to take twenty days, go to Fujian Shaxian County to eat snacks, go to Guizhou to see thousands of Miao Village, go to Kunming to see red mouth gull, visit the ancient city of Dali, and mother enjoy the Lugu Lake enjoy the Dali City, and the mother enjoy the Lugu Lake enjoyment Quiet time...
the experience of the more than 70 year old hibiscus, she said, "it's really fun outside, I like to travel, and most of them are Yunnan." Wherever my son is with me, I will not fear where I go. "
such a long journey is not as easy as the old lady said. Collapse, car accident, disease, car break down... Similar problems always perplex the mother and son. What impressed Xu Zhijian most was
last year's trip to Tibet. His mother has long been to Tibet, in order to avoid being too fat to suffer from the plateau reaction, Xu Zhijian started three months ago, every morning at 5 o'clock to get up and run, it is more than a dozen kilograms. When driving to Golmud, Qinghai, the wind, the low temperature and the shortage of oil, the face has been reddened Hibiscus still bite to persist, must be in Tibet, Xu Zhijian certainly did not agree, after after Gansu, Shaanxi, also the mother's compensation.
Xu Zhijian wrote a diary: "mother's body is not a year, people are all sick and dead, I know this natural rule very well, I don't hope much." I hope to be longer and longer in the days when my mother has the strength to sit on my right side driver's seat. Let's drive our son. We'll finish the scenery.
"mother's white hair is asking me, what can I do for her."
they have used up two cars and reimbursed 6 wheelchairs to see those landscapes that belong to them. Xu Zhijian plans to make more money this year, so that he can buy a new car with excellent performance and spacious interior before the Spring Festival because his mother is not easy to go to the toilet and needs to sit in the toilet chair.
why is it so hard? "Her snow-white hair has been asking me what I can do for my mother. How many times can the mother make her smile again? Maybe your son is not rich, no other people, but I only hope that when you talk to people about your son, I think this life is very worth, because you love your three sons. " This is a passage written by Xu Zhijian in a circle of friends, and it is also his commitment to his mother.
20 years ago, Xu Zhijian three brothers all day for the life of the rush, want to do business but not money, simple Sheng Furong by virtue of his good good goods borrowed 50 thousand yuan to them, but also very bold to say, "no matter how much money you need to start, I can borrow them."
Xu Zhijian has been used to a mother's journey, who has been on his 19 Spring Festival with his mother over the years, and his wife and daughter are used to the way of the new year. He has also formed a unique set of happy ideas: "people will never be happy every day in their lives, but there must be some good every day." Things exist. "
he said, in fact, in the journey to take care of the mother in a wheelchair, many places can not go, I can not play a lot of things, the so-called happiness, is a ordinary day after another quietly passed away, suddenly look back, has been full of life full of stories.
for the future, he said, "as long as she wants to go, I'll take her. If she can't walk, I'll push and hug her."