two ten 15 years, ten thousand years, Spring and spring are taking care of Zhao Xiangnan. she never married, but she did not lack the warmth of her family. She had no children, but she had never taken care of anyone before her bed.
60 years ago, 49 year old Zhao Xiangnan and Wanjia, as a nanny, the family of 5 children; 30 years ago, 79 years old, she is alone, and the family to take her home, when the family is careful to take care of; 108 years old she is sick in bed, the old husband's wife has passed away, but their children still care for the elderly, and not Do not leave, until the old man leaves the world. In the Huanggu District of Shenyang, this three generation of 29 people relay their care to the centenary babysitter's moving story, which is praised by people.
"you are our comrades, our sister"
1956, the air force officer Wan Ji and his wife Feng Ruofu are not taken care of by the 3 children in the family. After the introduction of a friend, he invited Zhao Xiangnan from the rural area of Anhui to work as a babysitter. When Zhao Xiangnan first entered the house, he called Wan Jia's children "big lady, miss two", and never joined the table to have dinner together. After listening to it, Wan Ji said, "Comrade Zhao, our Communists do not talk about the relationship between the master and the servant. They are all your children and call their names. You are not our servant, our comrade, but our sister. "
from then on, Zhao Xiangnan took the family as his own family. She is 18 years older than Feng nrov and two sisters. Because she was unmarried all her life, she was very happy to hear the children calling her aunt every day. She often says to outsiders that my sister's children are mine. In 1961, Zhao Xiangnan's rheumatic heart disease was committed. After consulting with his wife Feng Ruofu, Wan Ji hired a babysitter to take care of Zhao Xiangnan until she recovered.
"she worked for us all her life"
1966, for some special reasons, Zhao Xiangnan had to leave thousands of families, but all the families and Zhao Xiangnan had been closely linked together. Zhao Xiangnan misses thousands of family members every day, and tens of thousands often send money to the elderly. In 1986, Zhao Xiangnan was 79 years old. A chance, from the Shenyang Military Area Military Region Air Force part of the rest of the WAN Ji, learned that 79 year old Zhao Xiangnan alone, lonely life, and his family to consult Zhao Xiangnan home, take care of her later life.
Wan Ji daughter Wan Chunchun recalls: "three old people together, never had a red face. Usually, after dinner every day, parents and auntie sit on the sofa in the living room and watch TV. Because my aunt did not read the book, she did not understand much about things at home and abroad, and the father looked at her patiently and explained to her patiently. "
2001, before he died, Wan Ji gave his wife Feng Ruofu a special charge, "Lao Feng, you must do a good job of Zhao Xiangnan, to give people a pension, not to make people joke that we do not have a conscience." Feng Ruofu said, "you can rest assured, I'm sure to do it. I also have to educate the children and take good care of her. " At the end of 2007, Feng Ruofu was also bedridden by illness. During the hospitalization, the centenarians insisted on going to see their younger sister. The children had no choice but to push her wheelchair to the hospital. In the ward, Feng Ruofu took her hand and said, "old sister, you can rest assured! If I leave, the children will take care of you like I do; don't think much about it, you can't leave my home. " In February 18, 2009, Feng Ruofu died of illness. Before she died, she told her children many times: "you must treat your aunt kindly; she has worked hard for our family."
"we give elderly care to the elderly"
the mother had just finished the funeral, and the eldest son held a family meeting: "to take care of my aunt, the wish of his parents, and our responsibility." We must give the elderly home care. " In the summer of
2009, Zhao Xiangnan had herpes zoster. After hearing everything, he came back from Beijing and drove his aunt to the hospital. When he got to the door, he picked up the old man and went upstairs. Zhao Xiangnan said, "I can walk, let me down and walk, let people see a joke." "I respect you, no one will laugh," he said. When I was 1 years old, you hugged me. Now I hold you. "
it was cold. Wan Lili, the elder daughter of Yunnan, sent her a blanket, with a piece of paper in it. It said, "aunt, this is my own hand; your old man's house is on my side; I live too far to take care of you at any time, please forgive me..."
ten thousand brothers and sisters not only physically and mentally perform the old nanny's filial piety, but also say that they told the five children to treat their grandparents well. Every time they celebrate holidays, children send gifts to their grandmothers. The old man's hearing is not good. In Australia, the "granddaughter" Du Linlin bought her a hearing aid; the old man loves to eat the dessert, and the daughter of the spring and spring is trying to buy her.
the 108 year old man has been bedridden by a brain thrombus during an interview with all the people, who had given up his work for the taxi driver and took care of the elderly at home all day. Because of the meticulous care of Wan Chun Chun, the old man's room had no peculiar smell, and there was no bedsore on his whole body. In early 2015, Zhao Xiangnan passed away in peace.
"for me, aunt Niang has become my family. It is a logical thing to give her the end of her illness, and her parents set an example in a subtle way. This is a force that needs to be passed on from generation to generation. " Wan Chunchun said calmly.
reporter
in the Huanggu District of Shenyang, the reporter deeply realized that hundreds of thousands of ordinary citizens' stories can represent the moral mainstream of a region. Here, three generations are obliged to support centenarians, but one of them is a common wave, and is familiar with Lu Lao, who has been responsible for collecting plastic water bottles from the river for years.
one pile, one, the good and good deeds of Huanggu district are simple and moving. They are able to make a vivid and profound interpretation of the power of the examples around them, and it is just because these are small things that have a lasting positive energy, promote the ordinary people to make clear the coordinates of the people, and find ways of moral pursuit and value realization...