92 year old mother, old people with dementia, sing children's rhymes to make her happy.
humming the last sentence, mother clapped to say: "good!" Seeing his mother's response, dui was very excited. "Old mother still has memories of these nursery rhymes. Later, we would humming nursery rhymes to her every day, and these nursery rhymes were taught by us when we were young. When we sing, she will clap her hands and sing a few words.
in the eyes of children, the 92 year old mother is a child, capricious, lovely, but "ignorant". So the children sang songs to her every day to make her happy.
singing children's nursery rhyme, the old man responded with her children rejoicing in
in the second half of last year, 92 year old Gao Huixia, who lived in the West cite Lane in Xi'an, suffered from Alzheimer's, and life was unable to take care of himself. The old man has 3 sons and 2 daughters, the oldest 72 years old, and the youngest is 60 years old. In addition to the poor girl, the other 4 women's Volleyball Classes took turns 24 hours a day to take care of the elderly. The old man lived in Wuxing Street, and two of his children lived in the Xi Ju alley. In order to take care of the convenience, 4 years ago, he rented a set of houses on the first floor in the West cite lane, and the old man was picked up. Later, the eldest children were also sick, and the remaining 3 children continued to take turns to take care of their mothers.
at noon yesterday, the 63 year old daughter, dui Li, fed her mother after eating, and began to communicate with the elderly. The way to communicate was to chant nursery rhymes. The old man's ears were very good, but his eyes were gone and his brain was confused. One time, Duan unwittingly hummed a nursery rhyme in Shaanxi: "well, we two are good, we both go on the street to buy a watch, you pay, I wear watch, you say we two good?"
hum the last sentence, and the mother clapped her hands and said, "good!" Seeing his mother's response, dui was very excited. "Old mother still has memories of these nursery rhymes. Later, we would humming nursery rhymes to her every day, and these nursery rhymes were taught by us when we were young. When we sing, she will clap her hands and sing a few words.
the old companion's death was so bad that her daughter kicked out of bed
humming a nursery rhyme in the middle of the night to remind the mother of something of the past, and clapping her hands with her. But every day, besides these, children need to rub their hands, massage, wash their hair and change diapers.
children are sticking to these trivial things day after day, but still can not be careless. Duan Li said they made a toilet for the old man and sat up when the old man was stool. They helped them by the side. Once, the old man did not pull out for more than half an hour, and when he got up, he was full of trousers. This scene, let the children feel very sad, "she does not want to do this, but she can not hold herself, if we children no matter, how helpless she should be!" She keeps us young. We must keep them old. "
Duan Li said that before the parents, their feelings were very good, and they would feed each other with the same chopsticks. 4 years ago, after her father died, her mother's mood was very unstable. She went to bed with her mother at night. In the middle of the night, the mother will wake up and kick her to bite her, causing the teeth to be printed on her arms. Once, when her mother kicked her out of bed, she got up and held her mother's consolation.
children's children are also filial. "This is a kind of inheritance"
the elder and the little daughter, although they can not take care of the old people personally, they will also come to see them often.
is not only a daughter, but also the two daughters in law are filial piety. Once, when two daughter-in-law Li Caifeng fed the old man, the old man gave her a face, but her eyebrows didn't wrinkle. She wiped her face and continued to feed. This also makes Duan Li as a daughter feel very moved, "daughter is the old mother's little cotton padded jacket, but the daughter-in-law did so, we really moved."
yesterday, Li Caifeng said that her daughter-in-law was also filial piety. She did exactly what she was doing in contrast. "Mother-in-law is also a mother. This is all right."
Duan Li said, perhaps it was infected, and the children of their five siblings were filial to the old grandmother. "This is actually a kind of inheritance."
Gao Huixia, the old man's children, are very low-key. They are reluctant to accept interviews at the beginning. After they contacted many times, they agreed.
Zhang Mingyou, the community Secretary of the north courtyard gate Street, said that he visited Gao Huixia many times in the community and witnessed the children's care for her. "The children are old, and some of their families are not good, but this does not affect their care for the old mother, we feel very moved."
Zhang Mingyou said, it is such a good family atmosphere and filial piety, the old man is so long, it is worth spreading, and it is worth all the families and children to learn. Qing Rongbo, a reporter of the Chinese business newspaper