Shandong business daily / > daily take mother in the neighborhood, eat and drink lazara to take care of
text / picture reporter Cui Yanhong
both mother and son are walking in the south area of the friendship garden district. Every day people can see a pair of mother and son come out for a walk. The tall son and the old mother hand in hand, turn around the south area and turn to the north area, and come out two or three times a day. In the afterglow of sunset, two people were dragged for a long time. The mother and mother are 84 years old and 50 year old son Fang Zemin. AI has been suffering from senile dementia for many years. The only loved one is Fang Zemin. Fang Zemin has been taking care of her mother for 13 years. He thinks that the old mother can take care of her. His greatest wish is to serve her mother and make her a hundred. Life star.
Alzheimer's mother only knew that his son didn't know his own picture. The reporter came to Fang Zemin's home in the South District of the Friendship Park District. The house was simple, clean, ground or cement, the wall of the roof fell off, and the sofa of the coarse cloth added to some dark rooms. A lot of bright colors. The old man was dressed in cotton padded trousers and cotton padded jacket. He sat on the sofa and closed his eyes to rest. The housekeeping worker was cleaning up, and Fang Zemin was preparing to eat for the old man.
at noon, while housekeeping, Fang Zemin had just taken a bath for his mother. "She's a bit tired." Fang Zemin found the hammer, peeled the walnut, stripped it clean and sent it to the old man's mouth. After a while, the old man was hungry again. Fang Zemin again gave her a drink of yogurt. At the same time, he used the microwave oven to hot and hot cakes and gave the old man a piece of it. "My mother's intestines and stomach are not so good. I don't know hunger and full. I need to control it. Try to let her eat less and eat more, and all have to be hot and benefit her digestion." After a few mouthfuls, the old man said to urinate. Fang Zemin hurried her to the bathroom and helped her to unlock her clothes. "She sometimes incontinence in size and size. If she takes her slowly, she sometimes piss his pants." At night, I slept with her in bed. Before going to bed, I had to ask if I had to solve it, and then go to bed after it was finished, so sometimes it would be in bed at night.
Fang Zemin is the only son of the old man, and the only one that the old man knows now. "I have two sisters, and my sisters come to see her, and she says she never knew any girl." From September 2002, he found the atrophy of the cerebellum. The first symptom was the loss of three and four. The last three or four years had developed to disown people. Because her son was with her every day, the most thing she said every day was "son?" Fang Zemin took out the identity card of the old man to show the reporter that AI Xian Ju was very beautiful on the photo, and a silver ribbon with a scarf was very elegant. But when Fang Zemin asked her who was this with her ID card, the old man did not know him.
it was very happy to take care of the old mother's son every day,
worry that the old man was going too fast and finally paralyzed in bed, and Fang Zemin tried to postpone the development of her mother's condition. In order to help his mother's body, he bought a physiograph for twenty thousand dollars a few years ago and asked his mother to sit on it for several hours every day, hoping to delay his illness. Buy a nutritious meal, every morning with a porridge and the mother to drink, every day oral gum paste, stick to the mother to eat every day to eat, every morning, in the afternoon, with the mother out in the neighborhood, to increase the amount of food, let her sleep well...
Fang Zemin, an employee of the Ji'nan bus general company, went to the bus 102 station at 7:30 every morning to clean up and get home for one hour. Back home, he was waiting for the old mother to go to the toilet, eat fruit, walk down the stairs and turn around the mother all day. Eat. Fang Zemin was the first to be a bus driver, and then because of various reasons such as body and cleaning, more than one thousand yuan a month, daughter-in-law laid off in the supermarket, because her mother's body is not good, before the Spring Festival is in hospital several times, the daughter-in-law busy care, so usually care for the old mother on him.
Fang Zemin said, "my mother was a bitter life. Her father died when she was 41 years old. She took us three children and earned us money by sweeping the street. When she came back, she had to cook for us, and she did the housework very well. Now the mother has a little salary, and the three of us have a good life together. When the reporter asked whether to take care of her mother's delay in the work, Fang Zemin was satisfied with the current state of life. "The life is very good now. I don't have to eat at a small time. Now we have a house, we have to eat, and a mother let me wait. I'm very happy." If there is a treasure in our family, we will be happy if we are children.
the greatest wish is to wait for a good mother to make her a hundred year old star
people say there is no filial son before the bed, but when the reporter interviewed Fang Zemin, he felt that he was very patient and not a little tired from caring for the old man. Fang Zemin found a picture of his mother's birthday last year. The picture of a family surrounded by the old mother was full of harmony and warmth. "My sister's two children have been married and born, and two nieces and daughters in law have bought for my mother to eat." Now my mother is my concern, whether to go out to buy things, or to attend a party, do not dare to delay too long, thinking of the old mother at home, I think it is very worried.
in order to take care of the old mother, Fang Zemin, a young man, would not have done anything. Now he also has a good hand in housework, steamed steamed steamed bun, steamed bun, stir fry,... He used to do well in his mother's words. "The home care policy was introduced from the district under the lunar calendar, and when I came home to help my aunt, I felt a lot of lightness." Zhao Chengju, a houseworker, was particularly high on Fang Zemin. "I have never seen such a filial piety. Sometimes I have to make a good face before I go out. I come to steam the steamed bread in the afternoon. He is really good to his mother." The staff of the neighborhood committee told reporters that for several years, they often saw their two women holding hands to walk in the neighborhood.
is also because of Fang Zemin's careful care, the development of the old mother's condition is not so rapid, "I took her last year to check again, the doctor said that the extent of the cerebellum atrophy is similar to the previous, not much change. I hope to serve my mother well and make her a 100 year old birthday star. Fang Zemin had a smiling face at the thought of this wish. 銆�