They don't want to add trouble to their children and they live in a nursing home
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mother's day, some students from the Tianqiao experimental primary school come to the spring Maple old apartment, holding the theme "mother's Day Thanksgiving" theme celebrations, allowing the elderly to be There was a warm holiday in the old apartment.
newspaper reporter Li Fei was photographed in Ji'nan with a group of special mothers who volunteered to live in the old apartment because of their old age or illness. However, their distance from their children did not increase because of the separation of space. The love and care of their children enable them to feel love and warmth in their apartment. When mother's Day arrived, the reporter went to the old apartment in the second hospital of Lixia District and visited the mothers who lived here.
reporter Wei Xinli, "I do not leave, to stay here for a lifetime," Zhang Jinhua is 54 years old, because of a serious illness, life can not take care of themselves, at the end of last year, she had to live in the elderly apartment.
Zhang Jinhua's daughter is Nana, 30 years old. Zhang Jinhua's husband died when his daughter was 13 years old. About five years ago, Zhang Jinhua was ill and unable to get up. He had been living in her daughter's home and attended by her daughter. Four years ago, Nana also had his own children. But because her mother needed to take care of it, the child was handed over to her mother-in-law two months after birth. The mother-in-law's family lives far away. Nana can only go to see her children once a week.
in order to lighten the burden on her daughter, Zhang Jinhua volunteered to come to the apartment for the aged. The daughter did not come at first, and then reluctantly agreed. On the first day here, Zhang Jinhua said, "I am not going to stay here for a lifetime." Fortunately, the daughter lives nearby, and can come over every day. The daughter came to feed her early, and after lunch, the daughter did the work. It did not stay idle for a moment, until Zhang Jinhua went to bed.
Mother's Day is getting cold. Nana sent her husband to Zhang Jinhua for heavy clothes in the morning, as well as snacks such as beef tendons and chips. "In my daughter's heart, her mother is the first." Zhang Jinhua said proudly. "I often go to the toilet in the evening, afraid to give my daughter trouble." Sun Guangying, 77, has been here for three months.
she said her four daughters were born next to a child, two years younger than one, and the big girl is almost sixty this year. Before
came to the apartment for the elderly, Sun Guangying lived alone in Qilihe. Because of bad waist and leg, everything must be done by daughters. However, Sun Guangying never thought about going to her daughter's home to provide for the aged. She says she often gets up and goes to the toilet in the evening. It's very troublesome. She doesn't want to go.
Sun Guangying said that she was very satisfied with the conditions here. She was accustomed to eating and living, and also more convenient than home. The most important thing is that there are a few older sisters who are temperate.
Sun Guangying's eldest daughter lives near. She comes every other day and brings food whenever she comes. On the mother's day, Sun Guangying's four daughter brought her watermelon, too. "Don't let them come to see me. I'm fine." Yu Xiuying is the old tenant of the apartment for the elderly. He has lived there for more than ten years. She is 73 years old. She has the best physique in this group of elderly people. But more than ten years ago, she went through the gate of the devil - brain stem hemorrhage caused by high blood pressure, and saved ten days in hospital. After the rescue of
, Yu Xiuying was laid up in bed and needed someone to take care of him. I first lived in my son's house with a babysitter. Later, the babysitter went away, and her son and daughter-in-law were very busy at work. They had to take their children to the apartment for the elderly.
living in an apartment for the elderly, she said she was not used to it at the beginning, but she didn't want to go back. Yu Xiuying has recovered well, but he still doesn't want to go home. She said she was afraid to add trouble to her daughter-in-law. In the ninth year of the new year, Sun Tzu came to see Yu Xiuying and said to her, "my mother came to see you the next day." Yu Xiuying said, "don't let her come. I'm fine." But the children are very filial. "I want to eat what they buy. I like to eat chili sauce. They buy a few bottles at a time and put them away. One bottle has not finished yet, and the next bottle will arrive. Yu Xiuying said. "The clothes that the daughter-in-law bought, the wardrobe full." The daughter-in-law arrived in May 3rd and brought two pairs of new shoes to Yu Xiuying, which was an early mother's Day gift. On the morning of mother's day, Yu Xiuying's daughter, niece, nephew and grandson came to visit her. "There's a big car." She said, "the corner of the eye is smiling."