Ji'nan residents set up a new way of social networking through the Internet
a group of strangers who had never met before, through Internet connections, together to eat dinner together, chatting, phone, and singing together in KTV. This is.Quot, now active in the city;.Quot is a very simple and direct friend at such a gathering. This is a new social way of people in the city through the Internet. They may not know their neighbors, they rarely get together with their colleagues, but they are keen to know strangers.
clustering, clustering: from strange to familiar with
before New Year's Eve, Song Guangqi, who is ready to stay in Guangzhou for the new year, posted on a forum called.Quot; the nameless town.Quot; the friends who did not go home for the new year went to his rental house to make dumplings and eat dinner. On the eve of new year's Eve, 19 new netizens came to the meeting. The netizens brought beef, tomatoes, eggs and leeks to make dumpling stuffing. Netizens Wang Qilang volunteered to make dumpling stuffing, and Wang Yinfeng, a netizen from Heilongjiang, quickly wrapped up the beautiful dumplings. Song Guangqi said, a person in the new year is unavoidable feel cold, the net friends will soon be able to get together, can also find common topic, the year is also.Quot; taste.Quot;
according to a reporter, many netizens like Song Guangqi, such as Song Guangqi, often come out of the same block of the network forum, often meet to eat, chat or hold other activities, called.Quot; a group of.Quot; also a lot of netizens choose to contact.Quot through QQ group; group gather.Quot;
.quot; January 22nd (Saturday) evening, eat song, first sign up to see the number of places. .quot; in the morning of January 20th, in a QQ group set up for older single men in Ji'nan, the group owners issued such a notice, and soon five or six people responded. In the QQ group set up by Tencent, the Internet instant messaging software, such a party announcement is no longer common. Not only single friends, friends,.Quot,.Quot, group, game group, townsman group... According to statistics, Tencent has a variety of QQ group of more than 10 million. In the search column of QQ group, type.Quot; movie.Quot; there are nearly 60 thousand kinds of movie related groups displayed.
fan Jay has been working in a Real Estate Company in Ji'nan and has been working in Ji'nan from Hubei, home for 4 years,.Quot. I have now joined 8 QQ groups, including football groups, single friends, real estate sales groups, old townships, and so on. There are new people to join. There are also old faces that often attend parties. Now everyone has become friends. .quot; Fan Jie said.
reporters found that there are more meaningful activities besides eating, singing, traveling and so on. In a QQ group called.Quot in Ji'nan, where we are in.Quot, there are occasional public welfare thematic activities in the group. In the afternoon of January 23rd, some members of the group came to the Ji'nan Welfare Institute to see the widows and widows of the group and chat with them. Sun Feng, the organizer, said:.Quot; through such activities, help others, enrich themselves, and recognize new friends. .quot;
purpose simple: drive away lonely and more friends,
in many people who have not joined the net, this party should be a patent for young people around 20 years old, but that's not the case. Unless the organizers explicitly require age restrictions, such gatherings are common among people of all ages.
1 in the middle of />1 month, in a Ji'nan Hotel, through the forum and QQ group co sponsored a.Quot; Anhui people in Ji'nan.Quot; the participants were 6 years old and more than 60 years old, many people had never met before, and they were engaged in five flowers, eight doors, civil servants, enterprises and institutions. The staff, and the individual. Xu Lulu, who took part in the party, told.Quot; Chinese network affairs.Quot; a journalist who worked in a property company, his home in the field, and the few people he usually met, to get to a party to get to know a few friends. Xu Lulu said, such a party and usual colleagues and leaders to eat together is not quite the same, can be very relaxed, think of what to say. This year, Mr. Song, already 40, took part in the party with his wife and daughter,.Quot; he worked very busy, and the pressure was great. .quot; in fan's view, he took part in these parties because they felt too lonely in the city,.Quot; I was single, with a small circle of work and life. When I came to Ji'nan, there was nothing to do in the class or the weekend. It was very boring and lonely. Joining these groups is to know some friends who have similar interests, and also to have a chance to know their other half. .quot; Fan Jie told.Quot; China Network.Quot; reporter, through this way, he did know a lot of friends and gained a lot.
it is understood that in such a party, the final buries are mostly AA system, and there will be a just popular AB system, that is, men pay a little more, and women do less. Fan Jie said that no matter which way, the participants will be given the consent, very democratic, no one will have any objection to the payment.
Ma Guanghai, Professor of philosophy and social development of Shandong University, thinks that modern cities seem very busy, but many people are very lonely. Their communication channels are too narrow, their neighbors are unfamiliar, relatives move less, their colleagues may be affected by the factors of competition and position, and it is difficult to become friends. The network provides a simple platform, most of which have common interests or goals, in this way, it is easy to make friends and eliminate loneliness. Feeling.
in the interview, a lot of friends who participated in the party also confirmed professor Ma Guanghai's views, such as.Quot; brother is not a face, is lonely; I see not a book, is a lonely.Quot; and the popular, although it is a net friend, but also reflects the living state of modern people from one side. (Xinhua News Agency)
experts say
the emerging network party is worth approving of
Li Shanfeng, director of the Institute of Social Sciences of the Shandong Academy of social sciences. Before, both in the city and in the countryside, all the time was a "acquaintance society", a village, a unit building, everyone was familiar, often in string. The door. With the development of modern society, although the information is very developed, but a considerable number of people living in the city, but become more and more closed, more and more lonely, they need new social ways. A new network party is a new way to expand the social scope and expand the relationship. As long as the participants' starting point is good and the participation is reasonable and legitimate, it is worth praiseable.
group support is the
Li Shanfeng. The popularity of this phenomenon has a certain relationship with the obstacles of modern people's emotional communication. Many people live in a monotonous life, and some channels of communication are often restricted and bound, and can not be expressed. People who are new friends through the Internet are not interested in each other and are relatively pure, so people will join more and more.
there will always be some problems in the emergence of any new things, and Internet convergence is no exception. "Group support" is the "derivatives" accompanied by the emergence of "network gathering", similar to the previous "wedding", "wine care" and so on, refers to some QQ group or the head of the forum, by organizing activities or encouraging consumption, from the merchant to take the rebate.
participants need to pay attention to self prevention of
Zhu Shanhai, a lawyer in Shandong Zhongwei law firm. Zhu Shanhai said that the positive significance of online gathering is a lot, but for organizers and participants, there are still some problems to be noted. Organize parties to pay attention to safety issues, especially the organization of some outdoor activities, two times no problem does not mean that there is no hidden danger, the organizers must think of all possible situations, do a good plan, in order to prevent unforeseen. In addition, because they are mostly strangers, they are not known before, and the quality of the people is different. Some people with ulterior motives may use this opportunity to cheat or carry out other crimes, and the participants need to pay attention to self prevention. (Xinhua News Agency reporter Chen Shangying, Ou Dianqiu)