Re: gave up her career and love to take care of her seriously ill brother.
Chen Lingling said, almost at the same time his brother and father lived in a hospital. His brother lived in the six floor of the ward building, his father lived on the four floor, and Chen Lingling ran back and forth on the four building and the four floor of the hospital. Chen Lingling worked in a tax department in Ji'nan before. She said the job was hard won. She graduated from junior high school. Later, she studied for correspondence and got her undergraduate certificate. Finally, she came to this unit and signed the contract. From nothing to manipulate all kinds of business, Chen Lingling has made more efforts than ordinary people. When her brother and father were in the hospital, she took care of them while they worked. Many hospitals still had to rely on Chen Lingling himself. "At that time, I often ask for leave. Sometimes I go to work during the day, and I take care of them at night. I can fall asleep second days after work." Chen Lingling said, always asking for leave, and taking care of my father and brother while working, the work is not good, people also take care of the bad, "my brother's illness and father's accident in hospital all take a long time, so I have the idea of resigning, and so they are better to find other jobs."
Chen Lingling struggled for some time and resigned from the Inland Revenue Department. In fact, Chen Lingling also had an elder sister. She said her elder sister had been married to the field, and the children needed to take care of themselves. At the beginning, Chen Lingling told his parents the idea of resignation, and his parents, especially his father, strongly opposed it. So far, his parents did not know about her resignation. Chen Lingling did not want to let his parents get a second blow. It is sometimes impossible to abandon lovers who are separated from others. Chen Lingling says her ex boyfriend still hates himself. In order to take care of his brother, she started his own business after her resignation. In this way, she would be casual. As the time changed, his brother's breathing function became worse and worse. He began to cough blood, and his breathing was becoming more and more urgent. Chen Lingling and his brother went to the hospital more and more frequently. "No day is not hanging in the heart." It's spent in the gall. "
to take care of her brother these years, because of her own family situation, she has been reluctant to find a boyfriend, but finally was a boy's care and thoughtfulness. When two people were together, their feelings were very good. The boy often helped Chen Lingling take care of his brother. But it doesn't work well, and someone in the family is infected. Chen Lingling told reporters that her sister came to work in Ji'nan with her niece, who had contact with his brother and his brother, and her niece was found infected with tuberculosis last year. The result was a shock to all of them. After this incident, Chen Lingling was always worried about a question whether his boyfriend would be infected. What if he was infected, he was the only child in his family. "I don't think I should treat him like this. I feel like I'm dragging it down. If I love again, my brother can't give up."
she said she broke up with her boyfriend and did not tell him why, or the boyfriend would not agree. "He did not agree. I sent his luggage back to his home, so he hated me and felt my heart was too bad." Just to take care of his sick brother Chen Lingling, he said he was only one year younger than his younger brother. When he was a child, he was very naughty. He wanted to ask his parents for money, but he did not dare. He sent her sister Chen Lingling, and as long as Chen Lingling did not go, his brother took her a pencil and threw it one by one. Chen Lingling said, until now he still can't help laughing.
even if I am sick these years, my brother is optimistic and strong, and has been making fun of her. My brother used to repair a car at home with a relative. At that time, there was a girlfriend who was sick and had no work. Chen Lingling said, brother is a boy, not too fond of expression, but she knows his brother's confidence in himself, every time he has a sudden situation, his brother first calls himself. "When the last situation was very serious, his brother thought he was not good and he wrote a book. It said I was very hard, thank you for the care of these years." "." After reading Chen Lingling, tears could not help falling. She must try her best to save her brother.
yesterday, when the reporter saw her in the hospital, the girl in front of her eyes was thin and small with large eyes and had more maturity than her peers. She said that in May 22nd this year, when her brother slept, she suddenly couldn't breathe. She called 120 first aid and sent her brother to the hospital. After checking, my brother was diagnosed with tension pneumothorax on the right side. Because of the timely rescue, the younger brother's life was temporarily saved, but the body has not allowed second times to deteriorate. When he talked to Chen Lingling's younger brother, he had some difficulty in speaking. He said that these years have been my sister to take care of themselves, her sister's love for herself is like the love of mom and dad. It is great and selfless. She has given up too much for himself, hoping that she can take care of her sister.
stick to love, because later in the day, the situation of the younger brother is worse than expected, and the left lung gradually loses its function. Chen Lingling told reporters that these years she witnessed her brother from a vigorous young man to an abnormally weak patient, with only 2/3 of the right lung left in his lungs, often with hemoptysis and asthma. She said that after the first time she was discharged from the hospital, she left him in Ji'nan for convenience. Her parents were old. In order not to let his parents get involved, Chen Lingling took the responsibility of taking care of his brother alone, like his brother's left lung. She said she was willing to be the left lung of his brother. "This disease is contagious and worried that they are contagious," Moreover, if the younger brother has a sudden situation, they will not be able to cope with the two old people.
the current brother's disease has been spent nearly a million, and there is no very effective treatment. He has been working on a successful case of lung transplantation in a hospital in Beijing, and is now actively linked to transplant his brother's left lung through surgery. "If I can, I would like to transplant my lung to my brother." Chen Lingling said. Many people think Chen Lingling is stupid when they give up their careers and give up their love. But what does she say, compared to her younger brother's life? "My brother didn't want to drag me down. I wanted to give up my treatment. I was angry for the first time. In the end, he had no choice but to promise me that he would stick to it." She said.
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