3 31, when Xu Minxing gave milk, his son was in a daze.
little manager takes the milk version of the picture from the mother's basket by the reporter Liu Yule's
to a nursing home in an unexpected harvest
If I don't have a happy daughter, I may never know the joy of being with the children. . Longyuan is 48 years old. In addition to having a primary school daughter, there is also a 20 year old autistic son Xiao Chang.
found that Xiao Chang was 2 and a half years old when he was different from other children. Longyuan recalls, at that time, the same age children have already spoken, small but even simple mom and dad said not clear, she comforted his son is a late, but all kinds of abnormal performance is still worrying. When someone bumps into the corner of the table, he will cry and hide. My son will bump back a few steps and bump into it when he bumps into it. Eventually, Longyuan and her husband decided to take Xiao Chang to the hospital for examination. The diagnosis of autism caused the family to fall into the ice cave.
Longyuan took a year to gradually accept the reality of Xiao Chang's illness, and began taking him to rehabilitative institutions for rehabilitation training. On one occasion, the small unstable mood was biting hard, the anxious dragon Yuan replaced with his fingers, and was bitten to see the bone deeply.
the gap between hope and reality makes the mother almost physically and mentally exhausted. Many people mistakenly believe that autism has a special talent, but very few, and social obstacles will accompany them throughout their lives. Longyuan said, when he was 8 years old, Xiao Chang could use one finger to hold a cup, ride a bicycle with one hand, and drink water while riding, but what's the use for him?
LONG Yuan said, Xiao Chang will recognize her in the crowd, also go to her bag, and see if she has anything good, but I'm not sure he has it or not Think of me as his mother.
daughter's happy arrival, like a beam of light, lit up a family's life. Longyuan's anxious mood gradually recovered, and she began to treat Xiao Chang with a calm mind. He did not always force him, he also needed a normal life.
as he grew older, Longyuan also made plans for his way out. Children grow up and can't stay in the family all the time. They try to separate from their families. This is a good way for two children to grow up. 6 years ago, Longyuan sent Xiao Chang to a nursing home in the field. More than a year ago, Longyuan contacted a nursing home in the southern mountain area. Now Xiao Chang lives there most of the time, and his daughter and daughter visit regularly.
blinding, Xiao Chang has a pleasant change, which makes Longyuan seem to see hope. When he visited the last few times, the dean said Xiao chang would help the old men to water and wash their feet. There was little communication with the outside world before, and now I know that he takes me to the reservoir next to the nursing home to look at the scenery, as if he were introducing his home to me.
a helpless alternative to
even after the 20 year old Xiao Chang lived alone in a nursing home, there was a gratifying change, and in Longyuan it was just an expedient. When we are old and gone, what should he do? She has to talk to her 10 year old daughter and think of her son's commitment to her daughter later.
Longyuan confessed that when she talked to her daughter, she would tell her to wait for her parents to be old. She could put her brother outside and see him regularly as she is now.
talking about getting along with his brother, happy 10 years old also had many helplessness and annoyance. When I was little, I was jealous because my parents were more concerned about my brother. But I was annoyed when someone knew my brother was autistic and said something bad behind him. Happy to say, I sometimes think about how to treat my brother in the future, I would think that in case I didn't find a good job at the time, I would not be able to do it, but my mother said it was quite easy, better than I imagined.
like Longyuan's fears, although the 18 year old was able to go out and send milk with himself, Xu Minxing was still aware that it was hard for his son to do it independently. It is too difficult for Xiao Shen to send milk to account, read and calculate. She figured out that she should take more exercise and wait for her son to have the concept of work. One day, he could do some simple repetitive work, such as cleaning and packaging.
who will take care of Xiao Shen after her old age? Xu Minxing sighed a long sigh.
can't always depend on the rehabilitation agency
whether it is to leave home and leave home, or to take a little boss out to work. For Longyuan and Xu Minxing, this step is more than 10 years of difficult years. This choice is accepted that they may never change back to ordinary people.
is the same. Children can not believe that he is better than he is. He is focused on rehabilitation training. In Xu Minxing's life, from Xiao Shen to 16 years old, she did not go out to work for a day, all of her time on the children.
a drink of water, you need to repeatedly teach your hands hundreds of thousands of words will be written, but do not understand what it means.