Re: is "bound" to a loved one
in Yuncheng welfare and rehabilitation hospital, which can always reverberate with the flying songs and laughter, which is the only consolation of the 38 year old mother Hou Shuping.
10 years ago, Feifei was born, and Hou Shuping collapsed. For two months in the hospital, the child not only had a high fever, but her legs had never been pedaling in the bed, but the cause had never been found. After a survey, Fei Fei was diagnosed as spinal atrophy at age 1, and all of them were unconscious below the chest. Hou Shuping said, before the age of 3, flying in a healthy day with his fingers can count, "the hospital learned that we are from the farmers in Heze family, you said that your child is not good treatment, and even tell me that the children live less than a few years old." "No matter how hard it is, you can't just watch the child die at home." With this conviction, Hou Shuping resolutely sold his house in Ji'nan, and flew around to seek medical treatment with Feifei. For 10 years, her husband worked outside, and Hou Shuping took care of Feifei. As Fei Fei gets older and older, the burden on her shoulders is heavier. Sleep, go to the toilet, take a bath... Feifei's side is always inseparable from people, wherever they need to be held. Looking at people to play with their children, the thought that their children can only sit in a wheelchair, Hou Shuping always have a stone pressure, go out to see other people's home for almost the age of children, do not mention how difficult. Once, Hou Shuping was not steady. Both of them fell to the ground. She cried for a long time. "I didn't think about giving up, and how many times this idea was in my mind, it was very uncomfortable. I was thinking of who could help me. I felt I had no way out." Hou Shuping said, "she is my child, and she is the most suffering." Speaking of the sad place, Hou Shuping covered her face with tears. "Mom, please don't feel sad. It's okay. I can take care of myself." at this time, sensible Feifei always thinks of the way to comfort her, and scatters a charming and singing song. "Parents live for children." Now, Hou Shuping has been recovering for more than a year with flying in the Yuncheng welfare and rehabilitation hospital. "I hope she can learn some culture and improve the medical level, even in a wheelchair."
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simple desire
leave Yuncheng sunshine special education school, the green oil of wheat seedlings outside the wall, suddenly flung into the eye. In the sun, the wind blows the wheat waves, and it is full of vitality. The towering courtyard walls and inside and outside, just like two worlds.
there are more than 90 mentally handicapped children in Yuncheng welfare rehabilitation hospital and sunshine special education school visited by reporters. Bringing children to rehabilitation training has become the core task of every small family here. Parents have "bundled" themselves and their children together, in addition to receiving almost no hope of training day after day, more from the pressure from the heart. These mothers bring their children to the world, unable to bear verbal pressure, or even deeply self blame.
at the beginning of this year, a mentally handicapped child recovered at the Yuncheng welfare and rehabilitation hospital lost her mother forever. The shocking reason behind this is that Zhou Hong, the dean of the Yuncheng welfare and rehabilitation hospital, has a great pain. "The surrounding people accused that the mother gave birth to a sick child. In the long run, the mother felt his fault. After a conflict, she chose to leave forever."
in conversation with these mothers, "I don't go out at home." "I don't talk to the outside world" and "don't want to talk to someone else". Even well - intentioned greetings can be a different taste from them. They are eager to let their children embrace the wonderful world outside, but they are afraid that they are more hurt by the weak. Most of the time, she kept silent, usually did not take the initiative to talk about children's situation. The strange eyes of the surrounding people, perhaps unintentional, can cause a scar, a torrent, a fear, a anxiety, a hopelessness, and no outlet for a mother who is pregnant in the October.
thus gathered a number of mentally handicapped children here, and for them it has also become a "paradise". "Every child here is the same. We don't need to hide in our lives. We can talk to each other's children as well as our normal parents." The desperate mothers gathered together to warm themselves. "If one day we are gone, they can still live in the world, that is our greatest wish." The parents said.