Shun Network - Ji'nan times
before and by Xu Yingying My husband's son took a family blessing
a mother's birthday wish
I was Xu Yingying of Ji'nan Tianqiao District, suffering from leukemia. This year is 35 years old, more than ten days to celebrate birthday, this birthday looks like in the ward. My birthday is all right, but I want to make my son happy and happy on his birthday.
maybe this is my last birthday. I'm ashamed of my family and my son. As a mother, I have given too little to my son, and I can't go with him for a long time. So I ask the good hearted people to help me prepare for my birthday, leaving a happy and memorable memorial for my 6 year old son. Thank you for your kindness. Thank you all.
36, mother Xu Yingying, a leukemia mother, made 42 wishes, each of which was related to Yu Yu, a 6 year old son: watching a movie, eating a western meal, sitting at a high speed rail,.Amp; hellip.amp; these are all ordinary things for the ordinary people, but it can't be done for the mother and son. . In the afternoon of 21, there were 40 left unfinished on the list of wishes, but Xu Yingying left.Amp forever; hellip.amp; hellip
the wish was all for his son: I could not accompany him for a long time, and wanted to leave him a happy commemoration of
seven years of marriage. At 5:45 on the 22 day, he looked at the clock on the wall and walked round and round. He began to get up and busy. He went to the studio to wash Xu Yingying's photos, and to his friends and friends to the funeral parlor.Amp; hellip.amp; hellip's mourning ended later than sorrowing, and he had to greet his friends and friends to eat.
Qin Sheng, who suffered from cerebral thrombosis for 5 years, had a nap habit, otherwise he would not pull his leg. On the same day, it was nearly dusk, and exhausted, he locked the door and collapsed on the sofa. I found leukemia last August and suddenly deteriorated in August this year. She seems to have had a hunch recently. She can't put her 6 year old son in her heart. When the reporter knocks the door, Qin Sheng is sleepy.
on August 18th, 10 days before Xu Yingying's 36 birthday, she was lying in bed suddenly looking for a nurse to come to pen and paper and write 42 wish lists. The list says, "maybe this is my last birthday. I'm ashamed of my family and my son." As a mother, I gave my son too little and could not accompany him for a long time. So I asked the good people to help me to prepare for a happy and unforgettable.Amp for my 6 year old son on my birthday; hellip.amp; hellip
only two of them were finished: Zhang Quanjiafu, who took a reunion meal, went to
unfortunately, the beloved son of the son of love had not been able to stick to it. On her birthday, she finished 2 of her 42 wish lists, and the remaining 40 became birthday wishes. Qin Sheng told reporters that this year a family of three had only two meal reunion meals, one was the Spring Festival at home, one was in August 19th in the ward, and the recent reunion meal was a complete wish, the other was a whole family blessing and the help of a good man.
since Xu Yingying was ill, Qin Sheng had accompanied the bed all day, and his son had to move to the countryside to live with his grandfather. At 20:50 on the 22 th, he thought he and the reporter came to Zhang Jia village. On the way, he emphasized many times that he had a Western food on his wish list. After his father and son met, the first thing he did was to take a gloomy hand and buy a big bag of snacks in the nearby supermarket. In the dark, the father took his son's hand and walked forward. The lights of the supermarket lit up them.
[listen to them], from then on, the sick husband became the pillar of home: to find a job to earn money, let the child go to school
after his wife died, Qin Sheng almost did not sleep. Originally, the pillars of the family were gone. He could only be stronger and bear the burden of illness.
Qin Sheng has been 58 years old this year. This is the worker of the original cotton four factory. After laying off the job, it is difficult to find a stable job. The burden of supporting the family fell on the shoulders of his wife Xu Yingying.
after the wife's illness, the family's only economic source is broken, and the family is frugal and heavily indebted. She spent about 400000 of her illness, mostly from relatives and friends. The cost of the farewell ceremony and the money of her clothes were all borrowed. Qin rose red eyes, turned his face and did not want his son to see his tears.
next, his most headache is the children go to school, hoping that a good person can arrange a job for me, look at the door, sweep the floor, make money, and let me take care of the children's life and study.
he also hopes to get money to buy a cemetery at an early date, let his wife have a piece of ground, thank you for helping our good people, and I will try to bring the melancholy to his mother's wish.
farewell, 6 year old son may not understand:
mom, hello
the 22 morning, Ji'nan funeral home third farewell hall, Xu Yingying's farewell ceremony is held here. The 6 year old melancholy walked around the crowd, as if he did not know where to sit or where to sit. A sister grabbed his hand, and he followed quietly and obediently. The condolence begins, and the family is accompanied by melancholy standing before his mother's body. He stands there without saying a word, staring at the front. At the age of 6, he may not yet understand that his mother has left him forever.
the adults next to him gently taught him, "Mom, please sleep well." After a few times of melancholy, he didn't say anything. He stepped back, his eyes wandered, and he looked away. When his relatives let him kneel down to kowtow to his mother, he fell on his knees and made 3 rounds of ringing to his mother.
there are 40 more to be completed in the dream list of Xu Yingying /