source: West China metropolis newspaper
however, in the evening of the first lunar new year in 2014, a car accident turned all of this into a bubble. Her 22 year old brother, Chen Jie, was riding a battery car and crashed into a roadside cement bin, causing severe brain trauma, severe injuries to the lungs, fracture of the sternum, and now paralyzed in the bed: only the left hand was able to move and basically lost its language function.
to cure Chen Jie, Chen had already spent about 500000 of his house, sold his house to pay his debts, his debt was about 300000, and Chen Qiuyan made three jobs at the same time, making money to pay his debts. But the misfortune followed, and Chen Qiuyan, who had been married to Guangdong in the end, was also regrets by her boyfriend. "I do not blame my ex boyfriend, but the responsibility is too heavy for anyone to hesitate."
Chen Qiuyan and > Chen Qiuyan and his brother encouraged
one person
sleep 5 hours a day
"even so, I still feel that I did not do enough"
2014 year, when Chen Jie heard of a car accident, Chen Qiuyan immediately came back from Chengdu, facing a sick brother and a huge medical fee, Chen Qiuyan chose to go back to Yibin and work hard to earn money. Now, she is one of her three jobs.
every morning at 7 o'clock, Qiu Yan will get up and wash up in a hurry, then he will go to an investment company to make an account before eight o'clock. In the first day, Qiu Yan had to finish in half a day, because she had to rush to second investment companies at two o'clock in the afternoon. After a quick night's supper, Qiu Yan had to work hard and come to the bar to finish his last job. "It's only one o'clock in the morning when I get home, and I only have 5 hours to sleep." But what worries Qiu Yan is not exhaustion and lack of sleep. Although three jobs, a total of 5500 yuan to bring Qiu Yan a monthly income, but facing younger brother Chen Jie about 400 yuan a day medical expenditure, a four food fee, about 300000 yuan in debt, Qiu Yan still feel not done. In order to make more money, Qiu Yan also started a "micro business" to help his friends sell clothes. "Look at the pictures of many of my clothes in WeChat, but actually I have never touched those new clothes." Qiu Yan said. She had never bought any new clothes since her accident, and was able to wear new clothes.
boyfriend suddenly regrets
Qiu Yan chose to forgive
"I don't blame my ex boyfriend, the responsibility is too heavy"
and Chen Qiuyan's boyfriend left her at the moment. "We had planned to wait for me to return to Guangzhou last year, and we got married, but my brother had such a big deal. I don't blame my ex boyfriend for being too heavy a responsibility. He will be hesitant after two months.
is too late to smooth the pain of lovelorn. In May, Chen Jie's condition suddenly worsened. After the ventricle abdominal shunt operation, the fever lasted 10 days and was vomiting for nearly two months. The doctor suggested replacing the drainage tube, but at that time Chen was already in debt and couldn't get a cent. So we can only change the position of Chen Jie by adjusting the position of artificial body. Father and mother and Qiu Yan take turns to take care of his brother, his eyes do not dare to blink, "you do not know when the intracranial fluid is swollen, you have to shake him up." When she thought of a throat resection, she was even more afraid. "At that time, he could only breathe with his mouth. You not only have to look at him all the time, but also pay attention to his face and his voice. If there is a phlegm stuck, it will not immediately be sucked out and soon suffocated." Qiu Yan said: "at that time grandma was also in hospital. Grandma lived on the third floor. He lived on the four floor. I ran to the third floor to take care of her grandmother. I didn't worry about Chen Jie, but I had to run back and forth. My eyes were often swollen at that time. "
sister and brother story
baby brother
she bought a house
Chen Qiuyan was born in a small village in Changning county with her savings. "My parents went to Guangzhou very early, and the focus of my life is to take care of my younger brother." Chen Qiuyan said, "Chen Jie bought all the clothes and trousers and underwear from small to large. But before I went to polytechnic school, I never wore new clothes, I chose other people to wear them.
2003, after graduating from junior high school, Chen Qiuyan went to work in Guangzhou. Later she worked on a leaflet, and went to college. After graduation, he went into Guangzhou's "Dezhou Poker" game company, and started from the administration, and then began to take charge of training, recruitment, purchase and finance. "At that time I had a bottom salary of more than 6000 yuan, I can finally buy something I like, and I often go out to travel with my friends on weekends. I also fly back to Yibin from Guangzhou to see grandma every month."
at the same time, Qiu Yan also used his savings to buy a house for his brother in Changning, and everything seemed to go smoothly. In 2012, Qiu Yan met the man who had thought she was the right man. "At that time, I thought, after the father and mother and brother to return to Changning, they are in the old home Yuya Yuya's pension, the house brother can marry a daughter-in-law, although I married to Guangzhou, I still want to come back to see them every month", when said this words, Qiu Yan looked at heaven, the mouth is smiling.
now, however, Chen has been struggling with huge debts. It's time for lunch. Chen is busy boiling a cauliflower with boiling water, dripping a few drops of oil and heating it in a microwave oven, which is the lunch for three people. Speaking of these things, Chen Qiuyan did not drop a drop of tears, and even had always been smiling, especially when he looked at Chen Jie, but Chen's father, who was next to him, could not help choking up, "it was really squandering her, and this life came in." Qiu Yan is still smiling, holding Chen Jie's hand and saying to him, "call Daddy not to cry, tell Daddy not to cry."
dialogue "the most beautiful sister"
will not blame others for wanting the whole family to be better
reporter: you are so hard every day, will be very tired? What if you can't get it?
Chen Qiuyan: it's really going to be very tired. My daily life is to sleep late and get up early and work like a spinning top. I used to like sleeping too much, but now I can't get up, so they don't have any food to eat.
reporter: when you were a child, you were more boys than girls. Did you complain about your parents?
Chen Qiuyan: Yes, when he was a child, only he had calcium to eat. I snuck up a piece of it. My mother chased me and hit a few fields. At that time I still felt unfair.
reporter: do you feel unfair now that you have to pay so much for this family?
Chen Qiuyan: there is no way. Mom and dad are too old to work. This is my responsibility. In the past, I felt that my parents and I felt that if we took the money and bought a gift, even though it was filial piety, we felt closer now.
reporter: your boyfriend broke up with you. Do you blame him?
Chen Qiuyan: don't blame him. In my case, the responsibility is too heavy. If you think about it in another place, everyone will hesitate. In fact, he also offered to help me and help my life, but I refused and did not want to embarrass him.
reporter: are you big? Did you secretly cry?
Chen Qiuyan: big ah, it was hard for the whole family to have a good life. The house was bought, the younger brother was promoted to the factory's line leader, and I was about to get married, all of which changed at once. But I can't cry. When Chen Jiecai was in a car accident, my mother began to lose consciousness. I knew I could not cry. When I collapsed, the whole family would be in disorder. Later, I do not want to cry, crying is no use, or take good care of him, I hope that my brother can be a little better, and later we have to take care of mom and Dad together.
love to gather
to record one by one, and to record the expectations of
Chen Jie after a car accident later, with the help of the local government and many good people. "The minimum guarantee has been applied, and the government has also given us $1500 in difficult subsidies." Chen Qiuyan said, Yibin Second People's Hospital doctors and nurses, Qiu Yan family is also a special care. Some nursing workers saw that she was too busy and tired to take care of Chen Jie. Peng Hua, deputy director of Department of Neurosurgery, is also on call. Relatives and friends also donate money for them. Some people who did not know have donated generously after hearing about their family. The careful autumn swallow family records every person who donated the money and the amount. "After the children are better, we have to repay them." Chen Baba said.
and now, Chen Jie in the family's careful care and the full care of doctors and nurses, after 12 operations, a week ago, Chen Jie finally gradually entered the rehabilitation stage, from the Department of neurosurgery to the rehabilitation department.
the reader of Huaxi city was following Qiu Yan to the ward when Chen Jie's parents were pushing him out in a wheelchair to finish the rehabilitation training. When he saw Qiu Yan, he laughed and shouted "sister". After rehabilitative training, Chen Jie has already been able to say some simple words. He likes to take pictures, and he will compare to the camera. Most like Qiu Yan to massage his legs, every time a massage, he is very happy to laugh.
but doctors don't know how well Chen Jie can recover, maybe better or not. Although Chen Jie only left the left hand, even the "mother" would not shout, but Qiu Yan told the reporter, "the most painful time has passed, to Kang Fu Department, I in the heart of the head of the stone fell down."