source: Qingdao evening newspaper
"you enter the new book bag for you to take, you rain in the umbrella of the umbrella someone give you, you love to eat three fresh stuffing is given to you, your grieved tears have someone to wipe you. You live in someone else's home, someone is worrying about you. When you come home, someone is making hot tea. You lie on the bed and someone tears. When you smile, someone will blossom. " Mother, one of the most warm and heartwarming names.
at 8 a.m., Zhang Ying Village, Zhang Ying community, Jiaozhou Town, farmers rushed to the nearby factory. Feng Dexia, 44, started the electric tricycle at home on time, and two three or four year old children in the cart were playing. Everyone in the village knew that the two child was not Feng Dexia, but the two disabled children who were raised in her children's welfare home in Qingdao. It was also in this ordinary farm that two children who had been abandoned by their biological parents were given the maternal love of ordinary village mother Feng. Since 2002, more than 250 children who have been abandoned by their parents because of disability have been sent to the east Zhang Ying Village. The fate of the children is closely linked to the 146 rural women.
hand in hand and hard to be handicapped child enters the family to test the village mother />
yesterday coincided with the east Zhang Ying Village big collection, the village's cross road was full of people. Almost every walk of dozens of meters, you can see the foster family's father or mother, are embracing or pushing the children with a small car. Song Tongying, the village woman who opened the children's store, was busy selling stationery in front of the door. The 5 year old son of Foster was holding a ham sausage with his mother. The staff of the local children's Welfare Institute told reporters that the children who were able to choose a foster family had basically a moderate disability, and the first month of the new family would have or have a light or heavy inconsistency, which was a great test for the mothers of the foster family.
Song Tongying is the first foster mother. Since 2002, she has been a mother to 7 children, and the oldest boy who has raised her time has been following her for 8 years until she is 18. The health of Down's syndrome is the most difficult "tube". Two years ago, when the health was strong, I saw several small tea cups on the tea table. Suddenly, it fell to the ground and laughed at the debris. Song Tongying, who has already brought several such children, knows that reprimand and forcible suppression will only make paranoid health more restless. After more than a month, every time he picked up the glass to fall, Song Tongying would patiently squat down and tell the child again and again that the cup was used to drink water. When the reporter interviewed, the excited health picked up the cup several times, so long as he saw his mother laughing and coming, he would put it well. Now, the fitness has gradually been able to help mothers take care of the stalls, but also to help mothers care for the family's little brother - a year and a half bright.
raising hard foster care for ten years, daily drawing
only mother is good in the world, and a mother's child is like a treasure. In Feng Dexia's home, the 4 year old boy crane crane sang happily with his mother's accompaniment, "only mother is good in the world". The husband works in the factory in the town, Feng Dexia at home except to look after the small barber shop, but also closely "stares at" crane crane not to hurt the 2 year old Xia Xia. Crane crane's right eye is born with a disability and has a large red birthmark on his face. In Feng Dexia's eyes, he is the cleverest child who speaks the local dialect. As long as I see my mother sitting on the Kang head, crane crane will come forward to ask for a hug and kiss. Feng Dexia is always smiling to satisfy the spoiled child. At 8 in the morning, Feng Dexia had to send two children on a tricycle to the foster child rehabilitation center in the north of the village. It turned out that Feng Dexia was walking on foot, but because the two children often fought for it because mother did not hold them, Feng Dexia had to spend 2000 yuan on an electric three wheel to send a child.
walking into the home of the foster mother Zhang Qimei's home, the photos of the children on the opposite side of the fire Kang are especially obvious. Only one of them is 6 year old grandchildren, and the others are 3 foster children with her mother. "This is my three girl and I look forward to Jiaozhou to take the sea, hope in my 10 years, in addition to the children's welfare home clothes, our family are often to buy her new clothes." Zhang Qimei, who never forgot to foster her daughter, was transferred to the Municipal Social Welfare Institute when she turned 18 last year. Because of cerebral palsy, pan can not take care of themselves, and the stool is often out of control. Zhang mother has been dragged her for 10 years: take her to the toilet regularly, wash her diapers, wash her clothes, and feed her water. "None of my own children have taken care of this!" Zhang Qimei said that children are the same in their hearts whether they are born or foster.
after the emotional deep child was sent away, mother cried for a few days
"this brown hair is father, next to mother, long hair is sister..." At the age of 56, Zhang Qimei opened a small grocery store and walked through a 2 metre long corridor, the bedroom between Rong Rong and his wife. The TV is playing the animated big ears Tutu. Sitting on the Kang is nestling close to her mother, watching TV in a spirit. After the episode of the cartoon was finished, Zhang Qimei had to pick up a photo album made of cartoon cloth, and let the 5 year old man shout to his parents in front of the 4 photos. Those orphans and handicapped children are eligible for adoption. Children who are unable to take care of themselves will be transferred to social welfare homes after they reach the age of 18. Two months ago, Zhang Qimei was informed that he was being adopted by an American couple. These days, Zhang Chi Mei is constantly correcting the photos and is familiar with his new parents. Speaking of the right away from home, Zhang's eyes rose several times.
staff members of the children's welfare homes also remember the first time to see a child from a foster parent: at the gate of the child health care center of the city children's welfare home, the child was carried to Ji'nan by the staff. A pair of foster parents, afraid of the child's sorrow, has been choking the tears, waiting until the car just opened 20 meters away, the two people suddenly sit in the land and cry. Song Tongying, a mother who once sent 5 children, cried for several days after each departure. Now she can't see clearly the words on the phone.
on the day of birthday, I received a son cross ocean phone
between the foster mothers in the east Zhang Ying Village, and the most talked about the new members of the family. What's interesting is that mothers compare each other's children's new progress, or have several children accepted by the new family. "The first baby, JJ, was sent back to the children's welfare home for 8 months of anemia; the second was adopted as an premature baby, adopted by a pair of American couples; third allegiance was adopted as a cleft lip and palate; fourth small pairs went to the social welfare home after adulthood; and fifth Hollywood were adopted successfully." What we envy is that 3 of Song Tongying's foster children are eligible for foreign adoptions and are successfully accepted by American families. Every time Song Tongying's birthday, his two daughters will come home from Jiaozhou and celebrate their mother's birthday with their foster brothers and sisters. In the past May 2nd, it was Song Tongying's 50 birthday. In the early morning, she received an overseas call. It was Zhong Zhong's voice and wished to wish her a happy birthday. Song Tongying, holding the phone, cried for a moment and laughed. Hollywood, also far from the United States, has been keeping in touch with Song Tongying through American mothers. Every time they receive pictures of their children, Song Tongying will be happy to sleep for several days. Now, Zhong Zhong, ten, and Hollywood, six, have been able to "meet" with their song mother through online video.