"As long as you are confident, there's no way to go."
Shandong commercial newspaper
Zhaoyuan people Wang Xilin is less than one meter in height of osteomalacia, in 2011, marry the daughter-in-law poplar of Guizhou who is unable to walk normally. Hong Qing, the two rely on strong perseverance and optimistic attitude to overcome the unimaginable difficulties of ordinary people, and become a model couple who envy their neighbors. Yang Hongqing was worse in March this year, and Wang Xilin was still very optimistic because it was difficult to make up for medical expenses, but "as long as you have confidence, there's no way to go." Reporter Chen Jing
despite misfortune, Wang Xilin and Mrs. Liu Chang still smile to live reporter Liu Chang
love you ten thousand years unrealistic, but I promise to love you for eighty years. Don't worry, everything has me. As long as self-confidence, as long as the psychological sunshine, there is hope, all difficulties are not.
"I promise to love you with a disabled woman" "I promise to love you for 80 years"
1984 was born in Anshun, Guizhou province. The body was a bit deformed when he was born, until he was 6 years old. Even so, Yang Hongqing still loved life, entered the school with the support of his father, and had been a good result. The primary school exam was the first in the city, but it was a pity that life couldn't help to drop out of school.
after dropping out of school, Yang Hongqing was fascinated by the Internet and writing, hoping to learn more about the outside world, and have been engaged in forum editors, news monitoring, game practice, and so on, so many friends and pen friends have been met. In 2010, Yang Hongqing met Wang Xilin through an introduction from a Shandong netizen, and began to love online from two people. "At that time, I only knew that Shilin was a porcelain doll, and he opened a cake shop to support his parents. Later, it became more and more felt that the man was worth talking about through the chat, and he decided the relationship.
after a few months of chatting on the Internet, Wang Xilin came to Guizhou. After a week of getting along with him, he not only got Yang Hongqing's approval, but also passed his parents' investigation to allow two people to get along with him. "In fact, my parents were very opposed to this marriage, worried that we could not live, but later we felt that Wang Xilin's character and ability were all right, and agreed."
in August 22, 2011, on the last day of the national porcelain doll conference, Yang Hongqing and Wang Xilin held a collective wedding with another pair of porcelain dolls with the witness of hundreds of porcelain dolls. At the wedding, Yang Hongqing heard the unforgettable oath by her husband. "Love you ten thousand years unrealistic, but I guarantee it." I love you for eighty years. "
through hard life to turn a good life to the wife but a serious illness
because of the character completely different, the lack of common topic, just married two people often have a contradiction, but each time a quarrel after Wang Xilin will be mistaken, the two will soon be well, gradually two people formed the consensus, interest love, love, love Good and increasingly similar, become a famous couple in the vicinity.
after marriage, Wang Xilin took the initiative to take up most of the housework, and as long as he could do it, he never wanted to bother others. Yang Hongqing told reporters that one time Wang Xilin had kidney stones, and the pain could not stand up and vomit. Because it was midnight, he was not willing to disturb his neighbor, Yang Hongqing could not move her husband. The couple could only help driving an electric tricycle to the hospital, and did not know how many times to stop on the way, Wang Xilinzhi, when he saw a doctor. Wang Xilinzhi Then fainted on the ground. Before he fainted, he told me that I was fine, and I would be fine soon.
in order to solve the economic problems, Yang Hongqing started his old business -- Internet sales, and Wang Xilin also borrowed money to expand the scale of the cake shop. After 3 years of effort, by December 2013, two people owe their debts and have a little savings. As the two people are full of confidence and are ready to continue their efforts, a disaster quietly falls.
by the end of 2013, Yang Hongqing's condition suddenly increased, and she was disturbed by the severe pain of her legs. She could not sleep all night. After cling to his teeth for three months, Yang Hongqing decided to go to Beijing to seek medical treatment with her husband's encouragement.
to raise money for a wife "do not worry, I do not worry about it."
7 days in Beijing, the couple visited 6 hospitals, in order to shorten the time to reduce the cost of medical treatment, two people were often queued up at midnight, until eight in the morning to work, Wang Xilin himself could not remember to remember to be knocked down in the queue. How many times.
with the help of experts, Yang Hongqing learned that he had suffered from nearly 30 years of disease. Expert consultation, if no operation control the condition, can cause paralysis, and may also cause uremia, even if the operation is only 2/3 of the opportunity to control the pain. At that time, two people had not much savings left. After repeated consideration of
, Yang Hongqing decided to go back to Shandong for treatment. She went to the orthopaedic hospital in Ji'nan and asked for a preliminary examination. "The Dean himself looked at my examination results and suggested that the operation should be carried out immediately, and promised that the operation would be better than the present condition and the pain would be gradually eliminated. If the nerves are stable after surgery, they can walk on orthopaedic crutches or amputate their limbs.
heard that she had the possibility of recovery, Yang Hongqing was very excited, but the 50 thousand yuan treatment cost made her worry again. Seeing his wife's embarrassment, Wang Xilin decided to go back to his home and raise money immediately. He told his wife to have an operation as soon as possible. When he left, he said to his wife, "don't worry, everything has me. You're going to get better."
"do not worry, slowly" in the future they want a child
in the course of the interview yesterday, most of the time was Yang Hongqing said, and Wang Xilin just silently looking at his wife, only occasionally end a cup of water in front of his wife. "I am afraid to say the leakage, this time to get home to raise money is not ideal, only to get back twenty thousand yuan, and her operation at least 50 thousand yuan, plus later treatment costs need 150 thousand yuan, and need help from the good citizens, I really do not go to sell blood." After coming out of the ward, Wang Xilin rubbed his face and whispered to reporters. Despite tremendous economic pressure,
Wang Xilin told reporters that in addition to treating his wife, he always had a wish that he could have his own children, like ordinary people, like children and grandchildren around their knees. "Don't worry, take it easy. I believe this day will come sooner or later."