source: Southern Weekend Author: Wang Yi
Guo Min and her work book, 60 years old, who thinks she's in a good state of health. (Wang Yishu / picture)
after dinner every night for the haunted child and staring at them, Guo Mincai begins to eat his own meal in front of the furnace. (Wang Yishu / map)
Guo Min bought a fish for nearly a month, divided into three or four segments, each eating one week. (Wang Yishu / picture)
Guo Min, with two children, passed by a young mother. (Wang Yishu / Figure)
Guo Min said that the twins had not been regretted for a second. (Wang Yishu / chart) Guo Min,
60, lost her only mother, and gave birth to a pair of twins with IVF. She raised her children by herself, trying to make them like other children. Their clothes and toys are not small, they are full of beds, all of them are brought by neighbors, friends and kindhearted people. There is no single family: families usually leave their children's souvenirs as souvenirs.
eye opening, 60 year old Guo Min has nothing to see.
she is just an ordinary old lady with grey hair and wrinkled face. In the evening, she would go to the kindergarten to pick up two 4 - year - old children from school, and one meter and five of her body was drowned in the traffic and dust, holding one hand in one hand, nagging and happy. In countless villages in Beijing, there are too many old ladies who help their children look after their children.
the truth is: she is not a supporting role, but a protagonist.
the two children are not her grandchildren, but her children. At the age of 56, she used embryo implantation technology to give birth to a pair of dragon and Phoenix foetus, refreshing the upper limit of maternal age in Beijing.
Guo Min's only daughter was killed in a car crash in 2005. In those years, Guo Min described himself as "thinking, thinking, and trying to blow up his head." Until she saw a newspaper: "a woman in Japan has 60 years old to give birth to a child". At that moment, she thanked herself very much for coming to Beijing, a developed country from her hometown in Nanchang.
pregnancy was very successful, the first time it was aborted. Taking the medicine for a year, the body was successful this time. Cesarean section of the two children, even surgery belt production spent 80 thousand yuan. So far, she thinks that these 80 thousand are the most valuable money she spent in her life. Although 30 thousand of them were borrowed from old mothers. Mother later found that she could not afford it, and said, "forget it."
she kept a picture of her older daughter at the age of 14, and was afraid to take it out. It is not afraid to see the sadness. 9 years, long ago. Two children scrambled for it. "My sister is mine," almost broke.
failed to prevent failure. Embryo implantation technology implanted three embryos at one time. One of the miscarriages. My wife insisted that another one be left, and one daughter would be enough. "How can we afford two dollars?" She resolutely disagreed, and had been quarreling for three months. After three months of pregnancy, it was impossible to abort. She is very satisfied.
2013 in July, her 65 year old husband suffered from cerebral infarction. He was discharged from hospital for several months. Now he lives with his son, who was born with his ex-wife. Therefore, Guo Min now has two children, three sons and 600 children living in this rented house with a monthly rent of $600.
two children are 4 years old. It is the age of full crawling. It is easy to fall down if they are careless. She had a stainless steel pole at the head of her bed. Each of the two children wore one belt on the waist and the other on the pole.
every morning, Guo Min gets up at seven and drinks milk powder, wash his face and wash his ass for two children, and sends them to the kindergarten at half past eight. Go home to do the accounts, so that you can have another bag of instant noodles for lunch. Keep doing the accounts in the afternoon and pick up two children at five.
they are at the front door of the kindergarten for migrant children. It must be five minutes' walk, but she usually has to walk for half an hour. The villages in the city are so chaotic that all kinds of bicycles, motorcycles and motorcycles are rushing about on a dirt road. She was so nervous that she tightly held a couple of children and had to sidestep for a while.
"the little girl is fine, that boy is too naughty!" Kindergarten kindergarten Changbai Changwu confirmed one thing Guo Min mentioned: kindergarten tuition has actually risen by 100 yuan, except for two of her children. "She's too difficult to take care of it."
two children are white, lively, and have a special gesture of spoiled. They never asked questions like "Why are you older than other people's mother" or something like this? Instead, they rushed up and asked her to hug her, "Mom, I miss you."
in addition to one thousand and eight hundred of the pension, she now accounts for seven companies, each paying her 200 or 300 yuan. They are all old customers. Look at her seriously and do it all the time. But every month, she needs to get her account back and send it back to her. These companies are two or three people on a large scale. Some are in Tongzhou, some are in Shijingshan, others are in Haidian, and buses still have a long way to go. A few days ago, two TV reporters in the early thirty came behind her, clapped, and couldn't move, but she was still flying. Take the account back and work five or six hours a day.
costs $25, 500 yuan per month to save one thousand and five hundred. These figures are clearly counted by Guo Min in his mind. In this way, ten years of work, two children should go to school enough. Her wife had a seizure, and she immediately decided that she would not let her children go to college. The most reading of a technical school, can find a job, enough.
Open Guo's refrigerator, garlic and eggs are almost the only stocks. She makes a small bowl of steamed chicken cake every other day. There is a noodle in the kindergarten at three p.m., which makes her laugh. One day she won't be back at seven at night. Come to the kindergarten to see, the son is very good. It was the nurse in the kindergarten who fed him a steamed bread.
every Tuesday and five morning is her shopping day. The market was downstairs, but she turned a blind eye to the two stop and headed for a more remote rural market. The river fish there sells six yuan a Jin, two yuan cheaper than the village five. A three jin of fish is bought, and she and two children can eat for a month. The first chopped fish head and fish tail soup, two children love to drink; the remaining fish were chopped two knives frozen, three weeks stewed three.
once she went to collect the bill, and the other company's little girl said, Guo Jie, you are on the front page. Someone commented that you were so poor that you had to have a baby. She said: they do not understand the pain of losing their mother alone. She was also asked to declare what Guinness world records did. She did not go.
two lost mothers came to see her yesterday. One was the sudden death of a son in high school when he was playing basketball, the other was the son of a college student who was killed in a car accident. The two people were all crying out of a coma. She didn't cry. Tears have already dried up. For four years of exhausted life, she said, "never regret for a second."
four years ago, when Beijing local media reported that she gave birth to twins, she was still somewhat reserved, so that they all wrote "Ms. Guo". This time, she doesn't care. Portrait name, casual. Even the name of a child does not cover up. There's not so much space to cover up.
she felt the fear. The waist has been twisted two times. The doctor says you can't twist it third times. She is always very careful. Far from hearing the car horn, they hide to the side of the road.
his father died, and his mother went to Guangzhou with his brother. There was no family member in his hometown. In Beijing, there is nothing to trust her near the city village. Once she falls, the two children can only "push the community" and go to the orphanage. Now the weight of the two children is up to catch up with her. She has not been able to hold her son.
four years old, two children did not wear a new dress. In fact, their clothes and toys are not small, from singing plastic cats to children's bicycles, from vest to down jacket, and everything is full of beds. All the neighbors, friends, and good people sent them. Only the family is not lost.
families usually leave their children's souvenirs as souvenirs.
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family planning for family planning is a family called "lost family", which refers to the family whose only child has been disabled or died and has not been given birth or adopted.
according to the survey data issued by the Xinhua news agency, about 76 thousand "lost families" are added every year in China. By 2012, China's "lost families" had reached millions.
in order to solve the problem of "losing a single family", in 2008, the country began to implement the special family support system. In 2013, the China Women's Development Foundation launched a joint social force to start the "lost mother's assistance program" for the public welfare project, which was launched by the lost mothers, and to solve the problems of losing their families and losing their mothers through self-help construction and social care. In January 2014, the state issued a "notice on further support for families with special family planning difficulties", which raised the special assistance money from 110 yuan (disability) and 135 yuan (death) per person per person per month to 270 yuan and 340 yuan per person per month in cities and towns, and 150 yuan and 170 yuan per person per month in rural areas.
2014, in March, the CPPCC member and writer Mo Yan suggested in the two meetings that the government should introduce measures to bring the parents of "lost families" into the government pension system to give priority to their retirement homes, give priority to medical resources, and give relief to the elderly or medical expenses.